why is it so hard to meet someone . i'm not strange my friends tell me i'm attractive . when we go out i get alot of male attention i have plenty of friends yet i can't find a boyfriend . it always seems i go out with complete idiots , they have girlfriends,or have just come out of relationships
2006-11-13 05:18:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm not desperate and i don't go out looking for men .
2006-11-13 05:26:00 · update #1
The problem is your judgment in men, not your attractiveness.
Talk to men in places that are normally NOT for finding dates - social or professional clubs, church groups, grocery stores, the library, etc.; you will find that once the "hookup-friendly" social atmosphere is missing, you'll interact with the real person more often than the polished veneer that men put on to attract women to them.
Your desperation to find a man does two bad things for you - it drives away "nice" men and attracts men who are trying to get laid as easily as possible.
Good luck.
2006-11-13 05:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the luck of the draw. Try going to different places and getting involved in activities that will increase your chances of meeting quality people.
2006-11-13 13:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you're probrably hanging out at the wrong places. i felt the same way until broadened my horizons.
2006-11-13 13:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by mr E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking so hard. Love will find you.
2006-11-13 13:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by Fuzzy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you looking for a man in your life can i be the man for you.
2006-11-13 13:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by robert_197926 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you don't know wheather they like you are notbecause they don't show it
2006-11-13 13:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by tanky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋