They say and seem really turned on, but can't keep it going. What could reasons be? Too much excitement? Too little? Just trying to understand, cause i know it's uncomfortable for guys, when it happens, and me too!
2006-11-13 05:11:18 · 6 answers · asked by CuteChic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Could be either too little or too much excitement. Or they are concentrating so hard on your pleasure that they forget about themselves, then get worried you'll be totally turned off and at that point it's almost impossible for the guy to get another hard-on. According to my fiance, he said it's quite stressful to have sex, not because I don't enjoy being with him, but because he is so scared that I will walk away unsatisfied (which is never the case). Best you can do is just tell him that it is ok that he cannot keep going and that you still love him with or without sex, might make it easier on him to know that he has no reason to get stressed out about it.
2006-11-13 05:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess (as someone else said) stress can lead to lack of performance.
I would blame it on the guy not having good conrol, or as you said, becoming too excited too quickly (poor control).
However, I doubt that it is because of you or something you are doing, so don't worry about that part. Next time try to enjoy youself even if it's just for 5 minutes! LOL
2006-11-13 13:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by crazy_monkey_jr010 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't even worry about it
stress or worry that it's not going to be up to its potential is usually the cause
2006-11-13 13:15:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually has to do with the alcohol they drank and not u
2006-11-13 13:14:49 · answer #4 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
marijuana can cause impotence if used regularly.
2006-11-13 16:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It might be that they are nervous...
2006-11-13 16:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋