If i meet some one?

Question

ok i met this guy over the internet in this chat room he says thes 19 and lives in cali but is movin to washinton im sopse to talk to him again tonight. ive been talkin to him about a week he seems really sweet. he says he wants to meet me but im not sure cuz im only 15 whatdo i do

if ive seen a pic of him does that help ne ???

he just move to washington yesterday to start his own car repare bissness he says he is fallin for me

Answer 1

Have him come over to your house when your parents and other family members are there. I mean that's the way you would see any other friend any way, right? So if he wants to be your friend first he should be able to handle the way you treat any other friend.

Don't meet anybody without your family knowing about it, meet them in public places and at your convenience.

Good luck to you.

Answer 2

When in doubt, there's probably a reason for your doubt. Listen to your gut and play it safe.
You also need to be extra careful since he is (or claims to be) over 18 and you are a minor; any romantic or physical contact between the two of you could be considered molestation or statutory rape. Most 19-yr-olds know that it is not a good idea for them to be dating 15-yr-olds.
I find it odd that he is suddenly moving to another state; did he say when or why he is moving? or is he just claiming to move but really just visiting for a booty call?
You've barely met, so be careful not to reveal too many personal details about yourself, especially your address, last name, home phone number, school name, or anything else he could use to stalk you or steal your identity. Unfortunately, the double standard here is that he SHOULD reveal personal information about himself (photos, full name, etc) that you can verify so you know he really is who he claims to be.
Talk with him on the phone before you reveal anything too detailed about yourself. If he wants to meet, insist that it be in a public place and that a friend accompany you the first couple times. Do NOT let him steer you anywhere private, even if it's just an empty room or quiet parking lot. Be sure that your parents or a responsible friend have all the available information and photos on him, and arrange a "fail-safe" with them - if you don't call them by a certain time after the date AND give them the correct code word, they will call the police; if you give them the wrong code word on purpose they will know he is listening and will call the police.
Listen to your gut. Stay safe!!

Answer 3

ok been there done that...First of all you have only been talking for a week and you both already want to meet...I think you should try and get to know each other first.. talk on the phone chat on-line etc. Second you are very young so you have to be careful, there are a lot of psychos on this thing..now IF and only IF you want to meet him then go ahead BUT take precautions... let someone know when you will be meeting him, meet in a public area or an open place (a zoo, restaurant, park etc.)

Answer 4

The real question here is, do your parents know that you've been corresponding with a 19 year old guy online who's from out of state, and would they approve if you met him in person?

I get the feeling that your answer to both of these is no.

If so, why?

Answer that and you'll know why it's both dangerous and unwise to meet this boy.

Answer 5

He's probably 45 and sweaty. At 15 you're too young for that anyway.

Answer 6

if you do meet then do so with your mom or another grown up with you. you never know he could be a pervert to rape or kill you, they get your trust first, that's how they work.be very careful i don't want you another face on the milk carton.

Answer 7

Ever watch the show when they catch predators on T.V.??????? He might not be the age he says, usually they NEVER R!