Ok , I been with my man for 4 years and sex has died down from the way it was in the beginnig, we both work and raise our kids and we get exhausted. Well last week for the first time in a long time my man hasnt been able to keep his hands off me and just attacking me everynight for a week straight (no complaints beleive me) My question is do men go through those types of spirts and will this continue?
2006-11-13 05:06:39 · 14 answers · asked by onehotmama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just accept the fact that you are one hot mamma
2006-11-13 05:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hot mama..
Be thankful. Something got his energy and desire for you back. Men will go through the same ups and downs that women go through. The problem is trying to get them to sync up.
When a man isn't in the mood from sex it is usually from just being exhausted. Something has got him energized. ONE thing that you need to make sure of is that it isn't another woman.
If he's all the time talking about a new woman at work. He may be lusting for her and using you!!! You want him to be with you for you and not her.
Don't freak out. He may have awoken to something else. Just let it come out naturally whatever it is. Just focus on what he's talking about. If he just joined a gym, maybe his workouts are giving him more energy and you're getting the benefit... Maybe the stress at work was effecting his performance... He got relief of the stress and daddy is bringing it home again...
Analyze... Just don't read anything into it.
2006-11-13 13:15:33 · answer #2 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot wait to see the answers to this question! I have been with my fiance for approx 4 years and feel our sex-life is kind dry definitely compaired to before. Sort of the same thing has happened to me, where he all of a sudden gets this heated urge (its great right). I think in my case it's because we're not married yet and do not live together. But I am real curious to see what people have to say.
2006-11-13 13:11:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both men and women do this. My guy and I do anyway. We usually have sex on a nightly basis, but then again sometimes life gets in the way and one or the other just refuses to have sex. Then, things in life seem to get to you (either harder on you or easier) and you just need that touch. So, yes men do go through these spirts, but I firmly believe it's both men and women equally.
2006-11-13 13:11:26 · answer #4 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, i think men go through like spurts. My man is like that. We can go a few weeks with out sex, then he cant leave me alone! I think a man can only take so much then they need it! haha! It will probably continue as long as it takes for him to get his dose! haha! I feel like me and my fiance are married already. We are like 2 old people already! Sucks! I need to change things.
2006-11-13 13:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by Hydimyangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy I've been with does go through spurts of horniness. It's fun, and if you ever are feeling the same way, beleive me, he won't mind you ravaging him either. I say, enjoy!
2006-11-13 13:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by VB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, but look at any changes made by you or him, the way he dresses or the a new perfume, are the kids older? maybe theres more time alone in the house. I would not be alarmed, enjoy it.
2006-11-13 13:34:51 · answer #7 · answered by John S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea guys have spells just like women do. I know sometimes I can't keep my hands off of my wife and other times i feel like it is just a job to do. I say love it while it lasts.
2006-11-13 13:10:24 · answer #8 · answered by andyramvzb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah
they do
it depends alot on external stuff from the relationship like work and bills and school and stuff but the feelilngs deep inside never change
2006-11-13 13:17:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes for no damn reason we just get a burst of eneargy that we have to get rid of either by working out or by "WORKING OUT" get my driff. just enjoy it while it lasts. though i will tell you this make sure he enjos it to or next time he'll just work out
2006-11-13 13:11:26 · answer #10 · answered by angel of hell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋