I've bought him loads of thoughtful stuff for christmas too but i wanted to give him an extra treat. We've been together nearly four years and i thought he'd enjoy the idea of watchingit together and it leading to whatever............
2006-11-13 05:12:47 · 40 answers · asked by String of pearls 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when i say mild it's not that mild realy it's kind of in between i suppose.
2006-11-13 05:19:05 · update #1
I bet it will be his favourite present,go for it.Get a sexy outfit to watch it in.
2006-11-13 05:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by candyfloss 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There probably won't be much harm in it. It really depends on the movie, too. If you are just looking for a romantic movie, try PS starring Laura Linny and Tropher Grace, or for a steamier movie, watch Henry and June. Think carefully about whether or not you want to start watching porn together because from what I've seen, the couple that starts watching porn together, starts having sex with other people and breaks up, eventually...
2006-11-13 05:17:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont mind him lusting over the fantasy of porn and using it to amuse himself when you are not their then go for it.
It has to be said that porn is not some victimless fun industry. How many women do you know that would want to be porn stars? Alot are women do it against their will or because they are desperate due to drugs, black mail, violence or poverty.
My advice would be to get somthing that is classy and well made and not some random dodgey hardcore porn.
Seek out a respected company that looks after its actors.
2006-11-13 05:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, merudu, he would probably appreciate the video and whatever, but you may want to make your intentions and desires clear so he does not over-assume what you want.
However, I believe that it is an inappropriate gift for Christmas. Use some other occasion such as his birthday, an anniversary, Fourth of July... anything other than a religious holiday.
2006-11-13 05:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by Flame 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh go on!!! Be a devil!
If proof that men appreciate this kind of attention were needed, my girlfriend is quite fond of dipping her toe into the turbulent pool of soft porn and the sight of her teasing and pleasuring herself on film never fails to get my pulse racing.
Make sure to keep something in reserve for the "main event" though.........remember it should be a marathon, not a sprint!!
2006-11-13 05:35:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
As a man answering this question... I would say that he would like it, but may have difficulty expressing so, just in case he (thinks) he may offend you by being interested in the video. You probably know your man better (than he knows himself!) and if you believe he may have an issue with the present, then don't do it... Oh, and don't give it to him in front of the parents ;)
2006-11-13 05:18:06 · answer #6 · answered by Boring Old Fart 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes
2006-11-13 05:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by Jet 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you are going give the gift of porn, it might as well be hardcore! Keep the mild one for yourself!
2006-11-13 05:17:27 · answer #8 · answered by commonsince76 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why stop at mild. Go the whole way and get some real filth!! Of course he'll enjoy it. You both will!
2006-11-13 05:15:15 · answer #9 · answered by THE BULB 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i guess its cool and you can do it anytime, dont just wait for christmas hey, u should spice up your relationship everytime and not wait for those special days on the calendar such as birthdays or unnivesary, christmas, u should surprise him sometimes and thats very romantic.
2006-11-13 06:16:53 · answer #10 · answered by Ayati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for stronger porn, he will probably like the fact that you bought it to watch together, most men as boys hid thier collection from any female eyes, i know i did, so it will probably be liberating for you both.
2006-11-13 05:32:18 · answer #11 · answered by ........ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋