Ok, so I met this guy downtown @ the last supper club on halloween night. He gave me his number and asked me to call him the next day. So I did. We clicked. We text eachother every other day for about two weeks. Finaly this past Saturday I text him asking if he was going out. He says yes how about you? I said I don't know because I'm pretty broke right now, you got me? He says you know I would, but the girl I'm with wouldn't like that. She wants to get some tonight. I said that's my que, have a good time. He says no no she's just a friend that I go in and out with sometimes. I said that's fine, I just don't want to get wrapped up in something like that. Was she just a friend with benefits, or really his girlfriend? See, this is why men are jerks.
2006-11-13 04:30:41 · 13 answers · asked by Kat206 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just go ahead and bang him. you know you want to.
2006-11-13 04:39:16 · answer #1 · answered by s w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My point of view is that you make it clear to him about the situation.Lies will get him no where and should explain clearly. If you do want to be with him than you should get the answers. In a way he may spoken wrongly when he said "she wants to get some tonight".Maybe it's true she is just a friend but in a manner of speaking he made it sound like she is more than just a friend. My guess is if you do want to be with him than make it clear or else the best is to just let it be because he may have some skeletons in his closet. Or you can check his closet(laugh out loud).No i'm kidding.Bu the thing is you should wait for the right the guy to come along,flings does not last but it may be fun sometimesIt takes time to find love or love to find you and everyone is capable of it.It's ok to have fun here and there but you have to be careful because it may hurt at times so just be patient with this guy and see what his up to.Be the crouching tiger hidden dragon.And do believe that not all men are jerks because i'm a man too.Just that some can really be childish and immature.
2006-11-13 05:00:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it really matter if this girl is a 'girlfriend' or 'friend with benefits'? You have all the pertinent information you need to assess this situation and you've already figured out he's a player. He should not have given you his number and asked you to call. Now that you know more, you can make the decision that would be in your best interest. I don't think I'd want to be involved in that situation either. Forget you met him, lose his number and don't return his calls either. Guys can be jerks sometimes.
2006-11-13 04:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right, men are jerks. But at least you know what you're getting into. If you just want a casual sexual relationship with this guy then go for it. If you want something more or aren't comfortable knowing that he is seeing other people then stay away. You know the situation, the choice is yours.
2006-11-13 04:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by Jason S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's somewhere in between and you're right, you don't want to get wrapped up in it. It sounds like she wants more but he's still thinking that it's just a casual thing. Steer clear.
2006-11-13 04:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by abrennan01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it? If she is just a friend why can't you all hang out together. It's obvious something more is going on here. If you are looking for a relationship with this guy, forget about it. If you are out to have fun and to disrespect yourself, go for it!!! Wait around until he is free and kick it with him. is it seriously worth it though???
2006-11-13 04:40:23 · answer #6 · answered by tonaloha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reguardless, don't sell yourself short. Especially to a guy who just sleeps with people for the fun of it. You deserve better. Leave him alone
2006-11-13 04:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds to me like that was his girlfriend. Why would he say that the girl he is with wouldnt like itif he went out with you instead of her? Sounds like bull to me if that was just his friend im sure that she wouldnt mind chilling our hanging out with one more friend of his if they were just friends.Girl diss or dismiss him cuz hes just playing games
2006-11-13 04:45:03 · answer #8 · answered by Alicia G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could consider him a friend with benfits but i wouldnt get into anything serious with him because obviously he likes to sleep around
2006-11-13 04:41:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it clicked between u 2 u wudnt have to ask, ud know.
2006-11-13 04:41:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is his girlfriend and he is trying to hide it from you. I would stay away from him.
2006-11-13 04:36:50 · answer #11 · answered by Ask Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋