ever ask you're ex why he/she broke up with you??
i want to know, but dont know wheter its a good idea???
i want to move on but dont know wheter i want to know the answer...whats the worst he can say?? will it only hurt me more, or get me to move on???
i dont know how to ask.. if i even want to ask???
pleas give me some advice on wheter you think i should ask him and how???
2006-11-13 04:10:59 · 5 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you probably should not ask because if he is a nice guy he probably won't give you the whole truth and if it was an angry break up he probably will just say something mean. If it was a character flaw on your part you probably wont believe him. Try to figure it out on your own this will help in understanding relationships better and yourself. Examine the key moments when things went sour these are probably your best clues. If there are no moments like that then you can probably guess that it wasn't something you did.
2006-11-13 04:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by Ben V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to know, your entitled to know, your going to wonder and it'll hurt more if you dont know.
just wait a while, till it all cools off, then ask, just say "why did we break up?, its not a bad question, your entitled to your answer.
it'll help you move on
2006-11-13 12:14:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the ex owes you an explanation to why he/she broke up.
It is a good idea, because knowing what you did wrong (if you did) will help you in future relationships...
2006-11-13 12:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by harieta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just move on, if it wasnt meant to be then it wasnt meant to be, so just leave it at that. good luck
2006-11-13 12:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by lilli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the greatest respect, it was probably (and most likely) because you could never make your own mind up.................
2006-11-13 12:14:36 · answer #5 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋