2006-11-13 04:08:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him have real love, and let him go.
You obviously don't love him enough. He needs something more. Get out so you both don't end up cheated in the end, I'm dead serious.
2006-11-13 04:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
do whats right for you, if he is in the way for you, then be charitable and let him go so he can go find a woman that will give him all the love he deserves... having a career as a priority might seem great right now, but what happens when you trample all those who love you, and you get to the top (where you want to be) but have no one there to praise your hard work and to celebrate your success with... everyone needs love, and happiness cannot come without a struggle.. you need to find balance in life... a career is all about material for the most part, while love involve everything... be careful, think before you drive this man away... you don't know what you have until you lose it!!!
2006-11-13 12:12:00 · answer #2 · answered by lily 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should limit yourself to just one or the other. Why does it have to be career or love? There are lots of happily married people out there that have great careers. I mean what's the point of being successful and having all the benefits that goes with it if you don't have anyone to share it with? Its like being the king of your very own deserted island; its pointless. Take to your relationship with the same enthusiasm as you do your career; schedule and plan that thing to death if need be to find the time to spend together. Love is a precious thing and should be cherished above all else. So many people are too quick to dismiss it. Sure there are other fish in the sea, but do they all love you?
2006-11-13 12:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by Agent69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your priority is your career, maybe you should re-evaluate whether you even should be in a relationship right now. You might just need to let him know that right now your career absolutely comes first and that maybe you two should take a break for right now. Otherwise, you're kind of screwing him over and wasting his time. You might need to just consider dating people casually while you're so focused on your career. If this guy means too much to you to let him go, you need to bend a little and let him know that you're not in a position to be as exclusive as he wants to be, but that you care for him a lot and value your time together. Then the ball will be in his court and he can decide if that's good enough for him right now.
2006-11-13 12:12:37 · answer #4 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great! You are ONE in THOUSANDS who is caring for her career. Really I appreciate your ideas and pray that GOD help and guide you to achieve your goals.
Experience and observations reveal that this type of LOVE is nothing more than fog. Therefore, stick to your priorities and put these love issues on 2nd place or even more lower.
Look! if you continued to your education and GOD willing you will do. One day you will be at a certain good position, you will find better and more respectful lover. You will see that this very gentleman, if he continues and compromises, will much much appreciate your ideas, efforts and you will show more respect and grace in his heart and mind.
2006-11-13 12:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone with the same priorities. Seriously - you're in for a lot of frustration if the two of you stay together and each tries to change the other. You each deserve someone on the same playing field.
Unless you can COLLABORATE (which is much different from compromising), this will be a very rocky relationship at best.
2006-11-13 12:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it seems that unless he understands and accepts this fact, things probably won't work out. Not saying that you two can't go against the odds, but if you were to try and change your priorities to please him, you would end up unhappy, blaming him at some point, and things would just go downhill. If he really loves you, he will learn to be okay with your priorities. Or maybe you need to rethink them......what really is more important to you?
2006-11-13 12:12:56 · answer #7 · answered by be_loved5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when the career is over and you were a huge success. You will have plenty of time to sit on the beach and think as you will be alone.
2006-11-13 12:11:12 · answer #8 · answered by Alibi 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Good for you for knowing how to prioritize. Career-minded gals like you and me are a dying breed around here.
What you should do is agree to spend time with him whenever it's convenient for both of you. In the meantime, he should focus more on his own job (if he has one) and his own friends. No one can share a life with another if they don't have one of their own.
2006-11-13 12:12:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
girl this will cause alot of complications to arise in your future as a couple.he will get in the way,and you will begin to find him obsessive,you seem the more serious of you two,my advice if you want to stick it out with him is to keep a safe distance between you and hopfully thing will adjust in both your favours
2006-11-13 12:52:10 · answer #10 · answered by Olivebrowny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋