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I broke with my bf 6 months ago (we were together for 10 years) and we have a baby girl 3 years old. Although I feel I'm not over him yet, I'm seeing someone now, but it's nothing serious. I feel anxious about the relationship I have right now (if I can call it like that), and I really like this guy, who is a complete different version of my ex. As a matter of fact, I want to sleep with this guy, even that we have nothing serious. Don't take me wrong, I'm a very serious person, I'm not adventurous or like one-night-stand relationships, but I can't avoid feeling this way. Is it possible that my break up could be responsible of feeling like this? Sometimes I feel I have to force myself to date someone new, 'cause if I don't get over my ex, I will be alone forever. Help me, pls!!

2006-11-13 03:31:35 · 4 answers · asked by marylapana 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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It's called a rebound affect. Yes, it's nice to find someone else to take your mind off of the ex but be careful you don't treat him as the substitute boyfriend. See him as an indivdual person. Work on letting go of the ex. This will take some time.

2006-11-13 03:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by Nose 2 · 0 0

First of all, be gentle with yourself sweetie. Heartbreak takes more than sex to heal. Six months isn't so very long to get over a 10 year relationship.

What you have to remember is that your actions have a direct effect on your child's life. Go slowly. Be very careful about the people you let into her life, and yours. Good luck to you.

2006-11-13 03:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0 0

I think you are going though some seperation problems and that you are wanting to sleep with this guy to maybe help you get over your ex. Just to let you know that does not work it makes your feelings even worse. I was in that postion and after i slept with the guy i was even more confused and hurt and then i was hurt because i slept with the guy and now him and i are not even friends.......

2006-11-13 03:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by Kayla P 2 · 0 0

relax and slow down. Going right into another relationship will backfire to you eventually. Give it time. You are so vulnerable at this moment but rushing into another would be fatal. Take time for yourself and do some deep introspection before making another commitment,.

2006-11-13 03:37:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0 0

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