Family & Relationships - 12 November 2006

When it comes to our fights, I guess im the one who is always at fault. Its just we handle situations differently. I tend to let things go easily and he doesnt and he gets mad easily over stuff. Some things I do gets us back into another fight but I know that if it was him who did it, I wouldnt really make such a big fuss about it. Example, I ignore him because my friend joked around about something and my boyfriend said I wasnt't denying it and it was annoying to me. He sort of was joking around and I ignored cause I did but its not like I ignored him to be mean. He took it the wrong way and didn't speak to me. Made a huge deal out of it and there you go. If I was him I'd let go of it and what not. Later, he realized that we should be on a break. Me being scared of what he's going to do and what he's thinking. I think that when he speaks to me again, im just going to act like him, like handle situations like he does so both me and him know how it feels. I need your opinion guys.

2006-11-12 01:46:09 · 5 answers · asked by Cecilia 1 in Singles & Dating

WE HAVE TWO KIDS AND I DON'T WANT TO LIVE WITH IT .HE RECENTLY GOT IN AN ALTERCATION WITH THE COPS BECAUSE HE WAS DRUNK . HE GOES TO COURT SOON ,AND HE HAS NOT DRANK IN 7 MONTHS BUT HE SAID HE WOULD START DRINKING AGAIN AFTER COURT AND I TOLD HIM I WOULD LEAVE HIM .......SHOULD I?HE DOESN'T WANT TO QUIT DRINK EVEN TO KEEP HIS FAMILY AND HE SAYS THIS TIME WOULD BE DIFFERENT

2006-11-12 01:46:05 · 13 answers · asked by susanfiscus6 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend who was in a violent relationship has gone back with her violent partner after me spending ages helping her get rid of him.
Have i done right by stopping all contact with her?
I don't want anything to with her now.

2006-11-12 01:44:13 · 23 answers · asked by its me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

mine was my nans sister (aunty Liza) heavy set woman but very gentle, stern in her ways but always nice to us....we used to go see her at least twice a week and she would have home baked cake ready for us, straight from the oven, her house smelled like oranges...every time we went there she would treat us with nice things and was always happy and smiley, the thing that made me laugh about her the most was, she wore them old corsets but instead of wearing stockings she used to cut the legs off a pair of tights, so at christmas time i got her a pair of silk stockings from an old army shop, the first thing she did was cut the tops off...never knew why she did that...she would wear them but the ladders went right down to the heels...she would say to us that they were too long for her because she was only 4ft 11 in height..she never compalined about anything and was always willing to help out no matter what, she even used to give us pocket money even though she was broke...i miss her,

2006-11-12 01:42:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Any interesting, experiemental, romantic tips on explorin the lips?

2006-11-12 01:41:47 · 9 answers · asked by kween 2 in Singles & Dating

So, I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months now. He says he loves me a lot, but he has an ex that he dated for 3 years. They are still very close, but he says he's over her (plus, she lives across the country). Last night, though, I found a text message that he sent to her on his phone, and it said, "I luve you." What do I do? Is this something I should worry about?

2006-11-12 01:41:08 · 12 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 01:41:02 · 4 answers · asked by sur 1 in Singles & Dating

How 2 approach my hubbys mistress

2006-11-12 01:40:42 · 5 answers · asked by michele p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-12 01:40:35 · 18 answers · asked by italia_azure 3 in Singles & Dating

I had one of my friends who is old enough to go to a porno shop to buy me the biggest dildo he could find. I know my mom doesn't go through our stuff but she makes the beds and vaccums our rooms. I hit the giant dildo under my sisters pillow just before we went to school. I would love to have seen my moms face when she found it, when we came home, my mom had a talk with my sister. My sister was pissed. She's really mad at me.

2006-11-12 01:38:20 · 20 answers · asked by Pimp of the Day 1 in Family

i've been married for almost a year and we have a baby, alot of times i dont have time for sex or am to tiared, so my husband jacks it, is it normal for a man to every ime he gets horney to do that, every time i mean it if i dont want it he does it, i think its nasty as much as he does it?

2006-11-12 01:37:44 · 12 answers · asked by babylove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i recently enrolled in an international sch and there are a lot of american guys around. i'm chinese(from hong kong) and i find tt they are a lot of vocal, open, friendly and maybe laid-back than asian guys..and recently there are a few no. of guys who seem to be trying to get my attention....some in a group w friends...some alone. and i dont really know how to react...i just try to be friendly and everyth but i'm not sure if they are trying to be friendly or they have an interest in me? how can u tell? cos for chinese guys, the only time they pay attention to you is when they like you. and recently this friendly guy i was hanging out w told me he liked me but i dont like him back!! so now i'm like paranoid and everyth i dont know how to react when white guys get friendly with me. are they hitting on me? or what? i cant tell!!! help!!!

2006-11-12 01:37:05 · 4 answers · asked by curiousnewbie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 01:36:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met this girl on internet..she is from French and i am from Japan...we are both korean.we have been chatting for more then 6 moths now....i have propose her twice and she told me that she cannot see me more then a best friend.She also got a bf(who live in Korea)..Once she ask me i am a virgin or not....also she said she really want to meet me....What do you think?? Do you think she love me??also today is the last day we are going to chat online because i am going back to Korea....what should i say to her??....

2006-11-12 01:35:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 01:32:17 · 25 answers · asked by mtv_luver87 2 in Weddings

I have a good friend from overseas. I am from Japan. As you know, we don't have exacatly the same customs, tradition, so I sometimes feel so frustrated to be a friend with him even we are good friends....Should I tell him that I feel that way or stay quiet without saying anything. for example it takes 3, 4 days to reply to my mobile text.......it is considered rude in Japan, but do I have to day that?

2006-11-12 01:31:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Iv never been a big fan, but ia guy said to me that thats a "starting point" for a relationship and then it can move into love from there, and is totally serious about that. Is that BS, what's ur opionon on FWBs?

2006-11-12 01:30:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is my third and final question hopefully haha! My boyfriend of 5 yrs recently broke up with me saying "he is confused, he is jewish Im not, we will never work because of family.. he knows he loves me, would marry me today.. just doesnt know what to do" So we TRY to communicate, it ends in a fight. He freaks out... So i know I push and I know he just needs time and space... It sounds so stupid.. and I know if i read this question I would be like "What? This chick is crazy!" ... But I just cant seem to give him that space. always break down and call.. And of course that puts us at square one! I am usually a strong person in many situations.. But with this, it just is something I cant manage to do! I love him so much I just want it to work out... What do i do?!

2006-11-12 01:29:45 · 19 answers · asked by leebee1234567 1 in Singles & Dating

ok.....a guy says that"'m flat on you".......hez on of the "bad guyz"of our area....he chases me always and passes too cheap **** comments on me!!!!!!!
what shud i do????

2006-11-12 01:27:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

with a real throbber of a headache. My lounge is untidy from visitors yesterday. Im aching tired and im stressed at moving to do housework. Friends coming over in two hours. I guess I need a push and I dont have the energy. Help me with this situation please

2006-11-12 01:27:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am in love with my boy friend more than one year
I am elder than him in 3 years we never talk about this topic he knows my age
Should I discuss with him about his topic and my second Question we never talk about marriage what should I do i canot no what he is thinking i know he love me plssssssssssss help

2006-11-12 01:26:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the problem i have is i have no friends i have very low confidence and i feel like im gonna be like this for rest my life i would like to have g/f and kids etc but no female would go near me coz im kinda fat and now i got no confidence to go out on my own to try make new friends just feel like im stuck and cant get out of it plz try help me someone i dont know what else to do :(

2006-11-12 01:26:39 · 14 answers · asked by rockerv1 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 01:25:56 · 6 answers · asked by parcels2002 2 in Singles & Dating

since i have never been in love i wanted to know if other ppl hve, i hve allways fancied myself

2006-11-12 01:24:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

has been announced today called"the plumber"

2 people stay in all day and no foowker comes.

2006-11-12 01:23:44 · 11 answers · asked by robertboozychic 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I just really wannt advice. I wanna do what is the right thing and not be hurt anymore but... Yesterday I found out that my fiance was crying and still might be in love with another girl, and he still cares about she fely about him. It was his first love, and it was only about 4 years ago that they were together. He's cheated on me twice already and I just don't really know what to do. He knew that this would hurt my feelings too. He said he's been thinking about her lately. I found a convo. yesterday with him talking to another girl about this. I really don't know what to do. I love him with all my heart, but I don't know how to fix this...

2006-11-12 01:20:44 · 19 answers · asked by katie_4_aaron 1 in Singles & Dating

He will be in Iraq so I don't want to send any thing big.

2006-11-12 01:20:03 · 4 answers · asked by young at heart 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok Two really good friends and i were joking about, when one asked a personal medical question, lets just say regarding sweat and her breast, my other friend and i pissed ourselves laughing thinking she was being silly and just joking around, then we realised she was being serious, i know you must think OMG what a b***h but it was a serious question among a lot of joking and also you really had to be there, anyway now she hasn't been her self, she still comes for coffee but we can see we offended her.. We did apologize at the time but im not sure what else to do as it might be a touchy subject to bring up again, i don't want her to think we won't take her seriously, i know being a friend is being able to talk about anything, but im just not quite sure how to talk to her about it without getting her all upset! We really didn't mean to offend her!

2006-11-12 01:17:54 · 11 answers · asked by missy 3 in Friends

i am in my sixty a play sport look and dress as yong man i still love young women and i still enjoy sex my wife no she clam on meonopose wath can i do go look somewhere else but a worry about get sick if i goo to see women and aid make worry to wath can i do?

2006-11-12 01:17:34 · 12 answers · asked by Ridha D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-12 01:15:33 · 7 answers · asked by X-Man 1 in Singles & Dating