When it comes to our fights, I guess im the one who is always at fault. Its just we handle situations differently. I tend to let things go easily and he doesnt and he gets mad easily over stuff. Some things I do gets us back into another fight but I know that if it was him who did it, I wouldnt really make such a big fuss about it. Example, I ignore him because my friend joked around about something and my boyfriend said I wasnt't denying it and it was annoying to me. He sort of was joking around and I ignored cause I did but its not like I ignored him to be mean. He took it the wrong way and didn't speak to me. Made a huge deal out of it and there you go. If I was him I'd let go of it and what not. Later, he realized that we should be on a break. Me being scared of what he's going to do and what he's thinking. I think that when he speaks to me again, im just going to act like him, like handle situations like he does so both me and him know how it feels. I need your opinion guys.
2006-11-12 01:46:09 · 5 answers · asked by Cecilia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I will never forget something my mom told me when I was in college. A big part of dating someone is to see how you will handle arguments and fights together. You need to end up with a person that you have open communication with, understand, and when you argue, you get through it. You two obviously get frustrated with eachother, and handle it differently. Do not try to act like him andhandle situations like he does, because if he is the right guy, honey you don't need to change for him. That is my opinion.
2006-11-12 02:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by JenniferLynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be careful with this situation if I were you!!!! If he makes a big deal out of something you consider a small thing, then it is not going to get better. He is going to continue to pick at the things that you do, believe me, I have seen it!!!!
2006-11-12 09:54:03 · answer #2 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really sounds like he's looking for an excuse to break up. He's not worth the aggravation. Give him his walking papers and tell him to not let the door hit his *** on the way out. He's hinting at a break anyway. No matter what you do, it will not be good enough for him.
2006-11-12 09:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by judirose2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to work that hard to get along with him maybe you should think about dating other people? Good relationships don't take that much work. Some people are anal and some are not - Find one that isn't!! You'll be a lot happier
2006-11-12 09:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by Scorpio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just find a new guy that's more mature in the way he thinks.
2006-11-12 09:52:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋