I love my fiance, we even have our second child on the way now. For the past year or so my sexual desire for him goes down more and more. I still find him attractive. He is a good honest family man, and I love him for that, he just doesn't please me in the bedroom... I have tried telling him exactly what he can do to turn me on, but he'll do it like once, if even that, and go back to his selfish lovemaking. we don't french kiss/make out. He never touches me, except "down there" when he wants to get it on. I know this would be a topic better discussed with him and not strangers, but I have tried so many times and he just wont make the effort. It's not because I am pregnant, either, because it was like this long before then. I just wish there was a way to get him to please me, and want to please him. Can you get that flame back once it has gone out? I am only 22 years old. I should have many years of happy lovemaking ahead of me!
2006-11-12
03:03:37
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