2006-11-12 03:08:39 · 17 answers · asked by lostinlove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well.. i guess in my opinion, firstly is try to think about what cause him to change or react different from previous behaviour..
did something you did that caused to act this way or change to current situation..
I'm a man, i would know why a man changed, basically in general, there are two reason or more:
one is; he's originally a liar (which he's trying to be nice all the while until he can't tolerate anymore, so he change back to he's original character),
two is; bcoz he couldn't get any real satisfaction in sex, then suddenly some girl came tickling him and manage to click on for more sexual/satisfaction activities..
But i could be wrong thou.. as mentioned, there are more reason for a man to change. having said this; the woman i knew, have even much more reason to change as compared to man..
But nevertheless, pls try talking to him nicely to catch anything that went wrong and try to patch it back.. avoid having arguement or anything suspicious thinking.. as it may result to a worse situation...
I pray for all the best for you k, and hope that God will give you all the hapiness that you guys need...
2006-11-13 22:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change: (v.) alter; become different from what one(/something) used to be. Would confrontation be a good suggestion? or wud keeping it pent up be better? How d'yu find out whether he's lying? Men somtimes lie so dat they don't lose the ones they love..but if it's ALWAYS, then der's a problem posed, right? what kind of lies, what's the motive, the reason behind them? Are they harmful to ur relationship (probably yes) or to u, or r they lies that really affect ur plastered heart? Judging from the type n nature of the lies, u can make the right decisions: dump him, stick wit him, deprive him of some 'privileges', show ur integrity n giv him reasons dat ur the best that he can have...otherwise jus let this loser lose wat he has right now...
2006-11-12 03:22:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may want to concider doing some investigating, form experience I can tell you that if he is caught telling lies all the time there is likely more to it! It is possible that he has secret life, find out before he drags you into his deception. Best of luck and be strong!
2006-11-12 03:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by Tree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has changed and not for the better i would leave you dont know what he is doing now if he is cheating etc dont push a divorce unless you are constantly fighting just tell him you are moving out that or go to family cpounseling or hire a private detective to see what is going on or ifg you dont have alot of money follow him around yourself in your friends car and wearing a wig someone elses clothes and sunglasses
2006-11-12 03:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he has changed and is always telling lies to you then my advice is that you should leave him, you shouldnt stay with him for the rest of your life if your not happy with the relationship.
2006-11-12 03:11:13 · answer #5 · answered by aprildarcie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him the door and tell him not to let it hit him in the a-- on the way out! and also tell him not to bother coming back!
2006-11-12 03:11:01 · answer #6 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex suddenly started lying to me and everyone was like, he's cheating get rid of him. i didn't believe it. until one day i don't even know what happened but we weren't together and he was engaged to the girl that he supposedly wasn't cheating on me with. regardless of whether or not he was cheating, he was still planning on leaving me to get with her, and i wish i listened to everyone else, but i trusted him. the reason he gives for leaving me, that i didn't. an excuse.
anyway, i would confront him about what he is doing when he is lying to you and show him proof that he is lying. if he still does, hire a private investigator or have a friend follow him around, but make sure he is cheating before you do anything. trust me.
2006-11-12 03:23:59 · answer #7 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My guess is that you are both fairly young. If you suspect something is wrong it probably is. Seek help! Not here but real help. Talk to your pastor, a counselor, or a social worker. But please talk to someone who can help YOU. This problem will not just go away and maariage is a serious situation.
2006-11-12 03:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by ddrdart 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when men change it comes with an outside influence so u need to check this out if u know what i mean and instead of arguing try talking to him and reminding him how much u love him and let his conscience come to play.
2006-11-12 03:13:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would just start to bust him in every lie he tells. and i would tell him i am not stupid when it comes to figuring out truth or fancy lies! i would call him on every one of them as he is speaking them.
2006-11-12 03:12:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋