My gf of 3 months had 2 one night stands in the past. 1st to loose her virginity at 18 and she does'nt know why the 2nd time at 22. Shes 23, me 2. We havent had sex or foreplay yet in 3 months because she will when comfortable and it's harder now because she really likes me where as she didnt like the other guys & wants to continue a relationship with me after unlike the other guys. I love her, she doesnt love me yet but really likes me and wants to develop love over time as she says she's never loved somebody before and doesnt believe in love that quickly.
At a club she was dancing with her mates when a guy comes behind her and danced sexy with her briefly whilst she didnt know. Her friends saw & quickly looked at me flabagasted. I was so angry and knew it wasnt her fault. But now I'm so worried, I said to her "maybee you should dump me" and got all wierd. I dont think I could handle it if I waited this time and she got hold of another guy, shes kissed lotsa guys b4 me apparently
2006-11-12 03:10:09 · 5 answers · asked by Chris H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be patient... if you truely love her you will be willing to wait for sex... its not that big of deal in most relationships... yes it seems like forever before it happens but it will...... if she didnt know that the guy was back there it was not her fault!!! her friends shoulda said something to her.. or you shoulda said something to the guy.... if you end up being her first love... this will b a very specail thing for her.. first loves are always rememberable, but remember they are not always right! just dont rush things and dont push her.. be patient things will work themselves out....
good luck!
2006-11-12 03:16:42 · answer #1 · answered by hopelessly_in_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 11:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it sounds like she likes you but is not ready for a commitment however guys dance that way with me but if I had no clue I would stop and go grab my guy LOL maybe she needs time to figure things out and to see if she really wants to be with you
2006-11-12 03:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro... you sure you're 23? You sound like a pre-teen...
Be a man and tell her what's up... if she's not cool with that, walk away and leave her alone.
There are more fish in the sea... go fishin'!
2006-11-12 03:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by Wedding Crasher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait a while and see whats gonna happen.dont apoligize because if the guy wasnt you then she wouldnt keep dancing and her friends notice so why not her
2006-11-12 03:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋