mother in law was a big part of our lives?

Question

mother in law lived next door till she met a man and moved out of her house and now brother in law and wife and kids moved in and now they took over her house and mother in law does not call come by or even check on her grand kids ....should we write her off for good ? how can you do this to people you love.......husband is tore up by the way his own mother has left us to deal with next door. brother in law is tearing walls out and fixing the house like its his but mother in law doesn't care i guess but when we lived there and wasn't allowed to touch anything........family should never do this to you ......should we move out of state to get away from the hurt?

Answer 1

Mom in Law is experiencing a new life and as everyone else goes thru it, it'll come as being routine in time as well. Things will settle down and she'll see the light again. Give her a chance to live a little..... life's too short. You sound a bit selfish, sorry to say. Most people WANT their inlaws out of their business. What's wrong with the brother fixing up her house? Nothing. Not to be critical but you remember how it is when you feel so alive when you first start dating someone? Well? It's your mom in law! She is feeling alive and beautiful. She loves your children I'm sure and in a couple of months when the newness wears off she'll be back. :)))) Take care!

Answer 2

Mother in law is consumed by the new love in her life..
It is not personal...
I'm sure she still loves her family..
Sure, you can move, but it won't really change things other
than to get you away from brother in law..
Do you hate brother in law ?...
His remodeling the house should not bother you except perhaps
for some mess & noise...

Answer 3

Tell her it would be nice to see her but do what you need to to be happy. Out of the state is not always something to make you happier.

Answer 4

yes