I am in love with my boy friend more than one year
I am elder than him in 3 years we never talk about this topic he knows my age
Should I discuss with him about his topic and my second Question we never talk about marriage what should I do i canot no what he is thinking i know he love me plssssssssssss help
2006-11-12 01:26:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so your older then him by 3 years that isnt a lot. my sister in law is 2 years older then my brother. my sister is 7 years older then her husband both couples are doing great. tell him you love him and that you would like to be with him for the long run. If marriage is right for the both of you then it will happen but dont push it may scare him away. Let him know that whatever the two of you decide together is ok and a piece of paper wont change your feelings for him. If you dont talk about your feelings with each other then you are both being left in the dark.
2006-11-12 01:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truely loves you then he knows how old you are. He should at least if you guys have been dating for 3 yrs. It doesn't sounds like it would be a normal topic to just jump up upon. I wouldn't be to worried of the fact that you are 3 yrs. older than him. About the marriage thing don't rush things exsepically if you are both in love. Marriage could freak him out if you guys are young. He could not be ready and thats why you guys have not talked about it. Dont worry when the time comes you guys will talk about it.
♥ashley♥--Good Luck
2006-11-12 01:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by 7-7-07♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should not discuss with him,the idea of love unless you are absolutely certain you are in love. Becuase if he doesnt feel the sae way then he will be scared away.
However, you said you are certain he loves you too. Sometimes, its just nice to be in love...that deosnt necessarily mean you have to get married. So if you are looing to get married to this guy, then you should talk to him. But don't impose anything upon him, let him do the talking and let him tell you what he is looking for so that you don't scare him.
2006-11-12 01:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that its much of that importance to talk about ages. its like, as long as you get along with each other, that would be enough.. hrm, one year is actually not enough to know a person you know. well.. u can start questions like.. i think as long as he loves you, age doesnt really matter. but you can open that topic with him, like, u can ask him.. did u ever thought of any comments as u know that im older by you or something like that? about marriage. if ur relationship is just a year.. isnt it too early to talk about it? but you can ask him any way. what are your comments about our future? like.. what age does he want to marry. but before all this, i hope you could first understand his situations such as. if will get married with you, are you both capable of this? or you should also understand if a person doesnt talk much about future. its like, let time decide about it. things will come on time everytime.
2006-11-12 01:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by ~desa~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marraige is only A peice of paper!!! besides, love shuld be enough shudnt it?
2006-11-12 01:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by ca4btts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh. age is not the matter. love its that count.
2006-11-12 01:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by Zunnur' Ain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋