Ok Two really good friends and i were joking about, when one asked a personal medical question, lets just say regarding sweat and her breast, my other friend and i pissed ourselves laughing thinking she was being silly and just joking around, then we realised she was being serious, i know you must think OMG what a b***h but it was a serious question among a lot of joking and also you really had to be there, anyway now she hasn't been her self, she still comes for coffee but we can see we offended her.. We did apologize at the time but im not sure what else to do as it might be a touchy subject to bring up again, i don't want her to think we won't take her seriously, i know being a friend is being able to talk about anything, but im just not quite sure how to talk to her about it without getting her all upset! We really didn't mean to offend her!
2006-11-12 01:17:54 · 11 answers · asked by missy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well you and your friend put your foot into your mouths,shame on you ha ha ha ha,but it is fix able......Offer her a gift,take it over to her house and say your sorry,suck it up!
A nice gift to offer her,given she tried to explain her problem,would be a gift of rock salt deoderant,it's amazing for just this type of problem,you can buy them at any health food store,and they are only a couple dollars. She will think you actually took the time to think about her,and the problem she tried explaining to you when you made fun of her.
2006-11-12 01:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by vanislandwitch 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The last so called friend that I had that laughed at me not all the time but most of the time when I was trying to be serious we are not friends anymore. I noticed every time she was serious that I took her seriously. Especially if this is someone you work with they may go into a shell and start putting you back into that co-worker category and not a friend. It's easy to do I should know I'm doing it. Also I started to feel belittled almost bullied by it!
2006-11-12 10:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by Saude! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask if everything is ok and see what she says. She might be thinking that you told someone else and she might be wondering and worried about that. That is kind of personal you know. It's really going to be hard for her to beleive that you did not tell anyone since you lauphed at her original concern. If she does not open up then you must wait for her to come back and be godd friend again. She's young and she will adjust over time. Remember time heals wounds. also tell her her you miss her friendship
2006-11-12 09:27:44 · answer #3 · answered by David B re 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she has emotional issues that u dient know she had. talk to her..tell her that u all was joking and dient realize that she wasnt jokin in the midst of things. that she cant really hold it against u for the airheaded moment. and that u love her so much and would never want to make her feel bad or uncomfortable in any way. so give u a hug and then tell her to slap ya ass afterwards..for a fun ice breaker moment.
2006-11-12 09:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you should just send her a txt message or give her a call just say that you havent seen her in a while n if there is anything that you have done to upset her! when she brings up the situation just apologise! thats all you can do!
good luck
2006-11-12 09:21:41 · answer #5 · answered by *!*Rach H*!* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've apologized and that's good now perhaps you could relate back to her question and give her the advice she wanted.the subject may be tender because of what went on,but friends help even when the other friend shuts down.
2006-11-12 09:25:31 · answer #6 · answered by punkin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as your apology was sincere there really is nothing more to do. maybe she's embarrassed. it's really up to her to get over it you can only apologize which you already did
2006-11-12 09:20:56 · answer #7 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like your no friend....and you said that you apologized, but your best bet would be to talk to her, but do it with tact.
2006-11-12 09:26:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is obviously insecure not to say a little unstable...dump her and do not waste naymore time thinking of her...the weak and feeble are there for a reason...
2006-11-12 09:20:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sweaty breasted girls, the best kind you'll ever find. Tell her she may have been a man in her childhood.
2006-11-12 09:20:11 · answer #10 · answered by Pimp of the Day 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋