Family & Relationships - 7 November 2006

I like this guy...we got drunk once and end up in bed. We both decided that it was a mistake and blame it on alcohol. Although there was a physical attraction. He has told me that he is not interested in a relationship since he is still getting over his last break out which was 6 months ago. He also has told me that he rather have me as a friend than have what happend the other night. I'm usually soporting of him and try to help him anyway I can. he has called me:
"You are a very smart, beautiful, and proffesional woman, and that is an exceptionally rare trait in women that I meet" & "you're awesome (my name). thanks for being so understanding and helpful"
Do U guys use these type of words w/ girls that U are interested as friends only?

How do U think he might feel about me?

2006-11-07 13:25:13 · 2 answers · asked by Mesa 2 in Singles & Dating

We have let a friend and her daughter live with us for over a year, they are 26 and 5. The agreement was for $200.00 a month for both, full run of the house and a bedroom each. We loaned her $500.00 last March to get her car on the road. I babysit for free.She has only paid a total of $500.00. She also breaks things on a regular basis, leaves cigg burns, has little regard for our ways or requests. She only works 1 or 2 nights a week. Her car is illegal. We try to be her friends but we feel like this relationship is becoming bad to us. We love her little girl though and are the best thing for the child.We are trying to do the right thing but she seems to be taking advantage and doing nothing, even though I encourage her all the time. How do we fix this?

2006-11-07 13:23:27 · 17 answers · asked by dijudoit 1 in Friends

2006-11-07 13:23:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

RIGHT??!!!

2006-11-07 13:23:13 · 3 answers · asked by What gives? 5 in Singles & Dating

My parents seem to not like what im trying to do. Whenever I try to do something, its always either wrong or not up to their standards. I keep up in my schoolwork,, and sometimes I forget to do my chores, which I then make up the next day. So, I asked them today to pick me up at my friends house, because we were finishing up a project today for European History tomorrow. So, I told my parents what time they were supposed to pick me up, and we were done at said time. When I went out, they started yelling at me and apparently everything ive ever done wrong in the world, which normally takes hours. Then they said I wasn't around to go out for a week, and they yelled at me for some reason. Also, when I try to tell them stuff like "I'm not perfect, even though you think I am" and things like that, they deny it and they say they never do that and I can't get them to understand. What can I do about it? I almost cried when I got home tonight after what they said to me, so what can I do?

2006-11-07 13:23:11 · 6 answers · asked by BloodyCarrion 2 in Family

I dont know what to do.Its good but its not what a want right now I don't know how to tell him.He gave up his whole life for me and I just really want to get out of it without him wanting to become suicidal.Help me please

2006-11-07 13:23:06 · 6 answers · asked by dee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

has a man you were dating ever turned you down for sex and stopped seeing you because you came on too strong? How did that make you feel and how did it change your future actions with men?

2006-11-07 13:22:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend and I just met in school this year and she is just like me. We had so much fun togeher and we were getting to know each other really well. Just the other week, a new girl came in. She is from Korea just like my friend. Now, I am all alone and all my friend asks me is for the answers to questions. She doesn't een bother listening to the teacher for instructions. I am scared to say "NO" because maybe it will make things worse. She is always speaking Korean to her frien and leaving me lonely. I don't know what to do. I miss having her as my best friend. At my school, there are barely any other kids my age to be with since my school is not very expensive. Please help me...

2006-11-07 13:22:32 · 1 answers · asked by wallflower 5 in Friends

2006-11-07 13:22:07 · 8 answers · asked by chopchop811 1 in Weddings

If yes, then why?

2006-11-07 13:21:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's a married man that I have recently become very good friends with. We've gone dancing in a group of people and did some hot dirty dancing. We have admitted that there is an attraction. We hug frequently, any chance we get, and he has admitted he's crazy about me. But we also have talked about the fact that he is very married, and that we need to be friends. We have not done anything that is sexual, except a peck on the cheek. Are we having an affair or not? I feel very guilty.

2006-11-07 13:21:21 · 41 answers · asked by orphanannie 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife recently she said that she wanted to loose a little weight and to stop eating processed foods. Part of this was she wanted to buy all our grocieries at the high end organic grocery store. I tried to compromise with her and say maybe we could buy our produce there but she insisted. So I ponied up cutting completely from my expenses(she insisted her shopping and pampering money not be touched) so we could spend the extra 300-400 dollars a month to get our grocereis from there. I recently reviewed our bank statement and found out that she has been eating Dunkin Doougnuts, McDonalds and Taco Bell everyday. Is this a betrayal? How do I handle this, when I confronted her she dismissed me by saying she's a grown woman and she can put in her body what she wants to.

2006-11-07 13:21:19 · 16 answers · asked by BossHogg R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just got back from my aptartment to my parents home and my Dad wanted to help out my setting in place a windshield on a jeep i am restoring and Scraped the chrome on the costom hinges i purchased, i know it was out of kindness but I blew up. i didn't mean to. He wanted to surprise me after I had asked him to wait. Is it wrong for me to have blown up?

2006-11-07 13:20:40 · 8 answers · asked by Booker 1 in Friends

2006-11-07 13:20:25 · 7 answers · asked by fresh2 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-07 13:20:20 · 2 answers · asked by Ty 1 in Singles & Dating

i jus asked a question bout pregnancy...but do i have to tell my bro about it? my bf doesnt want anyone to kno yet but im scared not to tell him ...but im scared to tell him.....i dont wanna get my *** kicked but i think after the *** kickin and all he would b supportive....anyway since im 15 do i need to tell him?

2006-11-07 13:20:07 · 13 answers · asked by Krislyn S 1 in Family

Ok I know everyone always asks annoying questions like this but bear with me. There is a girl in my class that I know absolutely nothing about. I am not the typical kid who falls for a girl completely out of his league; she is decent as am I. The problem is there is about 130 people in my class. How do I confront her without looking like a weirdo? I would prefer that girls answer. If a boy came up to you, what would he have to say so you wouldn’t think he was a serial killer or something? Please help :-{

2006-11-07 13:19:10 · 12 answers · asked by Bill 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok im talking to the guy i like on msn and i just hung out with him tonight but he doesnt know i like him i dont want to make it weird cuz were good friends but what should i do>?do u think it will release some preassure if i told him

2006-11-07 13:19:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok im 18 and im 5'7 and I fear that I am probably done growing. I was teased about my height when I was younger and have a lot of issues because of that. My question is will my height make it hard for me to find girls? Would you date guy who is my height?

2006-11-07 13:17:41 · 12 answers · asked by and1baller4life0 1 in Singles & Dating

lets say its going to be my first time makeing out with someone i hella love and i dont want to screw it up. how do you make out?

2006-11-07 13:17:16 · 7 answers · asked by tinker.bell123 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, this may sound stupid but how do 12/13 year olds go places? i mean like going to the mall with there friends... Do they get a ride from a parent? do they meet at the mall? do they go walk there? Same with going on a date... how do u take your girl to a movie when u dont got a car?

2006-11-07 13:16:35 · 9 answers · asked by zx_zc_zv 1 in Friends

to going out with a guy, will other guys be scared to ask the girl out themselves cos she might say no to them too?

2006-11-07 13:16:35 · 9 answers · asked by Alexis 2 in Singles & Dating

he always smiles at me but i dont know if he likes me as much as i do. help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-07 13:15:46 · 9 answers · asked by anna m 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

She is rightfully from Jamaica and for a few year living in the United States of America

2006-11-07 13:15:41 · 2 answers · asked by Odane/Botton 1 in Friends

Me and my husband have been married for 5 years may of 2007. We got married in the basement of city hall at the spur of the moment. I was eight months pregnant and we had been together 2 years. At the time we could not afford a wedding so we put it off. Now I feel we are financially stable and I wanted a wedding, so I told my husband. I explained to him that me and my dad would pay for it and he did not have to do anything but stand there. He told me no he is not going to have a wedding cause if we did not have one at first we don't need one now. I want to wear a wedding dress, and have a reception. Should I leave the issue alone or keep trying to convince my husband. As a woman I think I desrve a wedding. Am I wrong and what should I do. I had already started calling places and looking for the reception hall. Please help!

2006-11-07 13:15:22 · 27 answers · asked by Sexy Seductive T 2 in Weddings

2006-11-07 13:15:11 · 7 answers · asked by koukla 2 in Weddings

Even if she's very attractive and has alot of other things going for her in life?

Why or why not?

2006-11-07 13:14:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are your tips and tricks? And no stupid answers please.
What do you like? What do you do? I am a guy. Any advice?

2006-11-07 13:13:27 · 4 answers · asked by flaminious 1 in Friends

What are your tips and tricks? And no stupid answers please.
What do you like? What do you do? I am a guy. Any advice?

2006-11-07 13:13:06 · 5 answers · asked by flaminious 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my bf were trying to keep a long distance relationship going and its SO hard! I'm from mtl, canada and i went to New Hampshire for a wedding beginning of october and thats where i met him. We kept contact, he would call me 7 times every day and worry and show me he cares, and he even came to montreal the next week end to see me. So the whole next week everything was perfect, we would call each other and stuff A LOT. But 2 week ends ago he just started calling me for a minute a day and he would tell me that he'd call me back but he doesnt end up calling cuz he's apparently too busy chilling with his boys or he fell asleep.He works 3rd shift so he sleeps when im awake and works when im sleeping. So basically we dont talk much anymore, even though we used to a lot, he would get out of his way to call me even at work, now it just seems he doesnt care anymore but he tells me he cant call cuz hes just very busy...Should i conclude it as if its already over?or is he just genuinely busy

2006-11-07 13:12:52 · 10 answers · asked by KiMMY_XoX 2 in Singles & Dating