Ok I know everyone always asks annoying questions like this but bear with me. There is a girl in my class that I know absolutely nothing about. I am not the typical kid who falls for a girl completely out of his league; she is decent as am I. The problem is there is about 130 people in my class. How do I confront her without looking like a weirdo? I would prefer that girls answer. If a boy came up to you, what would he have to say so you wouldn’t think he was a serial killer or something? Please help :-{
2006-11-07 13:19:10 · 12 answers · asked by Bill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a girl, and if a guy randomly started talking to me I would think something was up. Most girls would probably assume that the guy is attracted to her or something. So, I say try to be next to her or close to her. Try to sit by her and join the same clubs as her. Establish some more similarities and then it will make more sense if you approach her...
2006-11-07 13:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by kirin575 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When class is over and everyones leaving try to walk next to her, not being obvious that you're trying to. Look over at her and smile casually, well that is if she catches your eye, and say "Hows it going?" or something like that. And after she answers just be like I'm so and so by the way, put a hand out, etc, and hopefully have a small-talk conversation atleast. That would be perfectly normal
2006-11-07 13:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by Stacy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Do not try to be someone you are not.
Personally, I always just go up to a woman I am interested in and say "Nice to meet you. My name is Robert." After that I put my hand out so we can shake hands. That's the way I am though... Just be yourself. If she does not like you for who you are then move on.
2006-11-07 13:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by robert f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all im a girl so yea
second don't say anything dumb
any dumb pick up lines never say
most girls hate those things
&& dont say your eyes are pretty
every guy says that to a girl
a dog can have pretty eyes
get to know her figure out what she likes
without trying to look like a stalker
ask her somthing about h.w. that you dont get
but if you do get it ask her anyways
if you say somthing nice to her of any of her
physical featurs say somthing that none
has noticed before && act like yourself don't act like somthing your def. not be your self && it should all be good && when you get to know more about her ask her out before anyone else does because then your screwed
2006-11-07 13:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by yum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dont worry im a girl and i speak from experience any guy looks ten times cuter when we gives you a little innocent attention by introducing himself youre best bet is be relaxed and a little goofy! dont try hard to be smooth or anything be down to earth , and most importantly DONT BE REHEARSED! biggest misktake because youll studder
2006-11-07 13:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by Sammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if he came up to me and said Hi . i would say Hi to and say What's up ? Who are you ? and get a converstion started! The only way to know about a person is to ask the person!!!!!!!
2006-11-07 13:21:26 · answer #6 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. I have had soooooooooooo many guys come up to me but what worked was HONESTY!!!!!! I can't stress it enough. Go up to her and introduce yourself.Tell her you see her around school and wanted to meet such a beautiful lady! :)
2006-11-07 13:22:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go talk 2 her
2006-11-07 13:22:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hi and start talking.
2006-11-07 13:28:42 · answer #9 · answered by jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her u dont like her perfume
2006-11-07 13:30:31 · answer #10 · answered by giles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋