i jus asked a question bout pregnancy...but do i have to tell my bro about it? my bf doesnt want anyone to kno yet but im scared not to tell him ...but im scared to tell him.....i dont wanna get my *** kicked but i think after the *** kickin and all he would b supportive....anyway since im 15 do i need to tell him?
2006-11-07 13:20:07 · 13 answers · asked by Krislyn S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
jus so everyone knos ...I HATE MY LIFE!!!
2006-11-07 13:35:03 · update #1
You have already answered your own question with the statement that after he got over the shock he would be supportive. You may have a strong relationship with your boyfriend but it is not guaranteed that you will stick together forever, but your brother will remain your brother till the end. At your age you do need a guiding hand to help you with decisions that you will have to make so let your family help you.
And in response to your statement that you hate your life, then do something about it. You may be in a bad situation but you are young and can do so much with your life if only you choose to. So pick yourself up, be responsible and turn your life around so you dont hate it. Life is good if you give yourself the chance to make it that way.
2006-11-07 13:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you want to tell him, but are maybe afraid. You could tell him in public, or with someone else present. Can you tell him with a girlfriend's mother with you? Or the school nurse? Or your school social worker? He'd be less likely to hurt you knowing other adults are looking out for you, and they might be useful when it comes to thinking about your options.
Don't think you have to tell anyone, by law, but might if you wanted an abortion, depending on the laws in your state. However, just because you're living with your brother doesn't mean it would necessarily be sufficient to tell him if parental notification were required. Your parents might need to be told anyway, unless your brother had been named your guardian in court.
2006-11-07 14:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not a law. you don't have to tell anyone. however, you should tell him. you say you're only fifteen, and having a kid is really hard work. especially if you're still in high school. in addition you'll need much money to raise a kid, if you're planning on having it. you'll also need someone there for you. being pregnant bring lots of hormonal changes and you'll need lots of emotional support. and it's always better to tell him yourself than let him find out from somebody else. i mean, he'll find out, a pregnancy is not something you can hide. by all means tell him. please.
2006-11-07 13:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are afraid he will kick your butt literally then you should talk to a teacher or trusted adult figure. there are a lot of options out there. you will have to tell your brother, but again you have to keep yourself safe first.
go on the internet and look up your health department for the state you live in, or look up teen pregnancy hotline. they probably have the best advice
2006-11-09 05:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to tell him, but you should tell him. Your boyfriend does not get to decide whether you tell anyone. You are the one who's carrying the baby, and underage. You need a support system, and I don't mean just him. You need to have someone to help you get the financial, medical, and educational support that you require right now. Please tell somebody!!!
2006-11-07 13:45:02 · answer #5 · answered by Marianne K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of direction you're able to desire to tell him, you stay in his abode you're able to desire to admire that. the clarification your bf would not want you to tell is using the fact he's scared as nicely he could be and so could you. you're youthful, and you the two understand that this is going to alter your destiny. additionally he may well be somewhat greater afraid than you through fact of your brother. in line with possibility he's nervous of what your brother might do to him. yet you're able to desire to tell him now, your brother has been style sufficient to allow you to stay with him, so instruct him some admire.
2016-11-28 02:41:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you need to tell him. Its going to show sooner or later. This is more that just ***kicking.
2006-11-07 13:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by flesh_of_daisy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sooner or later hun he is bound to find out, I suggest you tell him, no reason to keep something like this from him.=-) good luck to you!
p.s. Since its his house you live in, he has every right to know.
2006-11-07 13:23:20 · answer #8 · answered by Lin_82 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hope you put the child up for adoption. It would be a shame for a baby to be raised by an idiot like you.
2006-11-07 17:48:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to tell your brother. Good luck.
2006-11-07 21:31:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋