I dont know what to do.Its good but its not what a want right now I don't know how to tell him.He gave up his whole life for me and I just really want to get out of it without him wanting to become suicidal.Help me please
2006-11-07 13:23:06 · 6 answers · asked by dee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know how you feel, I've been in the same situation. I searched and searched and there was no easy way of not hurting him. The hardest mile I walked, was the first mile away from him (he too gave up a lot for me, but the relationship wasn't good for me.) Just keep looking at the light in the end of your tunnel and remember it will get easier and you be happier once your gone. You cannot be held responcible for his mental unbalance and what he does when you leave. Remember, it is not meant to sound insensitive, but his actions are not your problem. You are YOUR problem. Sometimes, there comes a point in life where you need to worry about you. There will be a lot of crying, but hold your ground and do what you know is right for yourself. Personally, I booked a trip and went to the caribbean for a week with some girlfriends. That gave me something else to focus on. Remember, you are important!! Good luck!!
2006-11-07 13:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by Sue A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and formost, you need to think of your self first. It's your life!!! What ever he does in reaction to this is not your fault at all. People change! I am glad that you have the guts to follow through with this instead of staying and becoming miserable. At first you need to show some signs that you are unhappy so this doesnt become a huge shock to him. In the end you need to set him down and talk to him. Let him know that you are not going anywhere as a friend, that you dont have any regrets, and that you are soo glad that he is a part of your life but you need to find yourself. It will be soooo hard for him but if he truely loves you he will let you go. Eventually he will move on and you both will find the person you were ment to be with. Maybe you guys are ment for eachother but just not right now. Good luck and I will be praying for you!!!!
2006-11-07 13:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by angel l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really know what u r going through. try talking to him that's the only way out let him know straight up that u don't want in the relationship anymore. it's going to break his heart but that is life. there is nothing really to do but to letl him know. do what ever makes u happy, that is not being selfish at all.
2006-11-07 13:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by sweet143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its never easy to get out of a relationship but the soner the better the longer you leave it the harder it will be.. just be honest and hopefully he will respect you for that
2006-11-07 13:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy the Old song - "50 ways to leave your lover"! Hmm... that should give you about... uhhh... I don't know ...50 ways to leave your lover! Good Luck!
2006-11-08 02:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by lil redneck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU ARE THAT STUPID TO STAY AND DON'T KNOW HOW TO PACK YOUR ITEMS YOU DESERVE HIM. YOU MUST BE A BLOND.
2006-11-07 13:33:14 · answer #6 · answered by do you wanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋