2006-11-07 13:23:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We work together same shift. We've been on and off for about 6 mos. He spends alot times with his buddies but only once a week with me going out a dinner and movie and sex. While we were split, he told me that he went out with another girl and slept with her. I love him so much and he knows it. We just got back together again (2nd time) last week and he finally told me that he loves me too. Is he lying or is he telling me true? Why he doesn't spend time with me more? fyi, we work night shift (8pm to 4am) and have a same days off. Every week, one day is for him and his buddies, and the other day is for me. We don't talk much over the phone. But when we together, different story. I believe he used to be a player... Am I right? Should I trust him?
2006-11-07 13:30:04 · update #1
Why he doesn't spend more time with me? We've been 2gether on and off for 6 mos but haven't done anything special. Only spending one day a week with me doing movies dinners... he divorced last december. Should I just wait and give him some space? Why i keep think that he sees me only for sex? Then why he wants get back 2gether and telling he loves me? He said I can tell others at work we're 2gether again if anyone asked. he's out 2night with his friends and we're going 2 c movie 2morrow. Tell me, is he really into me and loves me? He is very sweet to me and when he talk to me always look into my eyes and tells me.
2006-11-07 13:41:36 · update #2
It sounds like he doesn't want to be involved with anyone....if he never brings you around his friends then that's a sure sign that he doesn't want to commit to you...If he never puts forth the effort of calling you or wanting to hang out EXCEPT when it's convenient for him then you need to get rid of him...he's keeping you on the back burner until something else better comes along..don't count anything against him when you two were broken up because he was a single man... so it shouldn't matter who he sleeps with or who he doesn't during that time... If you don't feel like his gf then he probably doesn't see you as one...
2006-11-07 14:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by xcura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to tell, because you didn't provide details of why you are asking this question.
Do you two do things together, spend time together, go see movies, hang out, etc.? Or is all your time together having sex?
Has he said something to you that has made you ask this question?
2006-11-07 21:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by star22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will tell. Wait and see if he sticks around without sex. If not, that's all it was about. Even if you give it up, he still may not stick around if he's not sincere.
2006-11-07 21:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by Answer4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't expect an answer for this question, it's not formed properly. Be more specific, you have to give detail or else you're never going to get the answer you're looking for.
2006-11-07 21:26:49 · answer #4 · answered by khalo_79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's kind of difficult to answer this question when one has so little to make judgement on. but if you feel like he is there only for the sex then i don't think it is worth it.
2006-11-07 21:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by mysticshabs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i need a little more info but i can tell you this if you have to ask it is probably just about sex your inner self is trying to tell you.
2006-11-07 21:30:50 · answer #6 · answered by elliepenelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is more presuuring on word sex then he is just with you for sex only he is not interested in you anymore
2006-11-07 21:26:43 · answer #7 · answered by GLADIATOR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldread signals that he gives you. If he talks dirty all the time, then it's not love.
2006-11-07 21:29:44 · answer #8 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we cant give u an answer because we dont know enough information
2006-11-07 21:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by BruceNasty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't tell, u need more details.
2006-11-07 21:26:32 · answer #10 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋