Family & Relationships - 6 November 2006

My friends are people i have been friends with since kindergarten. There are five of us, including me. In 6th grade and 7th grade i started making friends with different people and wasn't as close to the people i had known all my life. At the end of 7th, three of them asked me to sit with them and i got very close to them again. The fourth one, has become best friends with one of them and seems worried that i will steal her best friend. She has been a complete ***** over it and i am tired of being pushed around and everyone thinking i cause problems. I'm almost mad enough to get physical with her cause i lost a lot of friends over some lies. My friends won't want to be around us if we don't make up. I want to make it clear to my friends that i don't want to tolerate her ****. What can i do?

2006-11-06 08:39:24 · 7 answers · asked by Amba 1 in Friends

ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .

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when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone

2006-11-06 08:39:14 · 15 answers · asked by lbsf2904 1 in Singles & Dating

Respond to the following quote and share your experiences as support in your writing :D

2006-11-06 08:39:02 · 2 answers · asked by 2 days after my B day :) 2 in Family

2006-11-06 08:38:44 · 12 answers · asked by American dude 2 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine really likes me and he asked me out. I said yes at first but then I broke it off because I realized that I didn't know him very well. We are friends now and we talk. A couple weeks ago he thought that I left him because I was seeing someone else. I admitted to him that I liked someone else but that we weren't together and that wasn't the reason I left him (and it wasn't). Well...the other guy and I made out one night and some other stuff...but no sex or oral..or anything like that...I wouldn't go that far. We aren't in a relationship and we decided to just be friends but should I tell the other guy (1st guy) what happened?...In my opinion I don't think I should tell him becuase we aren't together and it is my personal life but I want to know your opinion.

2006-11-06 08:38:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked this girl out on friday and we are relly good friends. And she said she would get back to me. So she did and it ruined my moday. She said that the last time she dated one of her guy best friends it ruined her normal relationship with him. So how should i deal with this? Should i keep at it? or just should i be feeling angry?

2006-11-06 08:38:18 · 4 answers · asked by T 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 08:38:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In the beginning it was great cuz i was young (18)& nieve,but one day i asked him for a favor & he said he wouldn't do it.It was then I seen the light & realized the relationship wasn't great & it never was.I ended up cheating on him for 7 mos.& yes, he found out & was upset & still upset but did care,but In the middle of the 7 mos. I decided to move out behind his back,well, that lasted for 4 days he made everything sound great so I moved back in!1 year later&wish i never moved back in.See the problem is he is very controlling, posessive, & emotionally abusive.He never let me have friends or do anything on my own & he limits/stops me from seeing my family, & he doesn't want me to lose weight or get job.I am miserable & I feel like i'm wasting away i'm 26 yrs old & sometimes I feel like its to late to get out.We don't have any kids (thank God) & we're not married.But he wants a kid (probably to keep me home)&marriage.So i know i have to make a move soon.i'm just not sure how to end it

2006-11-06 08:38:07 · 14 answers · asked by nailart 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend got a tattoo after i told him not too. Should I be mad.

2006-11-06 08:38:07 · 45 answers · asked by needanswers 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so he's not cheap because he has bought me a $30.00 present and another $40.00 present for my birthday and christmas. But the other day he brought over a bag of crane game toys that he's had for years and said he wanted me to hide them because they were my daughters birthday presents. They are covered in cat hair (my daughter is allergic to cats) and I just thought it was very disrespectful. I'm not wanting a fancy $100 toy, but at least a $5 something....not dirty, allergen covered toys from under his bed.

What do you think? Am I right to feel that his gift was...less than satisfactory.

(She is not his daughter, but they do have a bond)

2006-11-06 08:38:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for my fiance...hes turning 28 and i have no idea what to get him. i hate getting cologne or boxers of shaving supplies and things like that. i want something that he may want...but didnt think i would get. u know? like a real surprise? HELP!!!

2006-11-06 08:37:43 · 2 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my man for a year and we both agree what we have is special etc, I've never felt this way about someone before. I knew I would be moving away with work this summer and we agreed to see how it goes. When we visit each other it's perfect and we really enjoy each others company, but when we're apart I feel as though I'm the one trying to make it work and he rarely calls unless I ask him to etc, I know he has a lot on and he always has because of work but I don't know how to talk to him about the fact that I feel completely separate to the rest of his life. I don't want to bring it up when I see him because I'm concerned it'll ruin the atmosphere, but I feel I should speak to him in person? Please give me some advice? I know we can sort it out, but how!

2006-11-06 08:36:56 · 25 answers · asked by mishmash 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Would you date a man that lives with his parent,has no car,but has a job and would treat you like a gueen?

2006-11-06 08:36:55 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 08:36:26 · 17 answers · asked by graham f 3 in Family

2006-11-06 08:36:22 · 2 answers · asked by Cici 1 in Friends

2006-11-06 08:36:04 · 20 answers · asked by Cici 1 in Friends

Everyone keeps telling me after my EX dumped me that it's his loss. Why don't I believe that? Logically, it makes sense. I am a great girl (honest, loyal, smart, pretty)... and he has SO many realtionship issues (cheating, selfish, cheap, etc.). Man... I want to feel like I've gained something out of this! How do I start feeling that way?

2006-11-06 08:35:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i'm in luv w/ my present boyfriend but i still care about my ex-boyfriend and he wants to talk to me and so do i but lk i have no idea of wat to do. i think i'm gonna talk to my ex-boyfriend but only as friends cuz not only am i in luv right now so lk i need help because i don't kno whether cheating on him will make me fell happy or sumthing cuz a part of me wants to but then part of me doesn't so lk help. or at least advice

2006-11-06 08:35:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She'z right next to me

2006-11-06 08:33:58 · 14 answers · asked by Marc-Jay 1 in Singles & Dating

My Grandad has died recently on the 2nd november
I am only 11 and i miss him very much
He died suddenly on the sofa
he was in his 60's
I cannot stop thinking about him
I loved him soooo much

2006-11-06 08:33:08 · 23 answers · asked by Ragtag 1 in Family

Ok, I share a dorm room with 3 other girls. One of them is a foreign echange girl from Korea. The 3 of us are having problems adjusting with her. We all agreed with our RA that from 10pm-10am that the air conditioning remain on because we all get really hot at night when it's off. Every other night/morning she wakes up and turns on the heater. Then one of us get's up to turn the AC on.

We've told her that we all agreed for the AC to be on and to not change it but she still does anyways. We even gave her blankets and a portable heater for her to use at night. Whether she uses them I'm not sure.

ALSO: The 3 of us are not use to the cooking smells of korean cooking. It's a quite pungent and strong and every morning around 7:30 am she cooks her breakfast which is like fried spam and onions.
This is all becoming really annoying and I'm want to tell her this but in a nice way .Please help us before we all kill her. LOL! Thanks...

2006-11-06 08:32:51 · 6 answers · asked by L.M.L 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

A few weeks ago my girlfriend had been out with some friends and gotten very drunk. The next day she told me that this guy who she use to work with tried to reach in her dress and touch her chest but she stopped him. Also, he lifted her dress and tried to go down her pants but she stopped him. That is all she told me! While I am greatful that she came out and told me, part of me keeps on thinking that she is leaving something out. I tried to ask her if there was anything more but she said no. Since this has happened I have been trying not to bring it up but it is lingering. I was wondering what any of you thought about her story and whether I am crazy for thinking that more must have happened.

2006-11-06 08:32:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

this always confuses me, does she like me or is it accidental even though she may press harder

2006-11-06 08:32:22 · 19 answers · asked by char 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, so my Mom says that I can't wear a spaghetti strap shirt because it shows off my boobs. I tell her it is just a fashion thing and she still won't. Am I the only girl who's mom is this way? What should I tell her?

2006-11-06 08:31:18 · 30 answers · asked by Anna J 1 in Singles & Dating

i deleted my account before i had a chance to get some important phone numbers from my inbox. is there anyway i can get that info or reopen my account?

2006-11-06 08:31:13 · 7 answers · asked by marylouse08 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 15 and i dont need them for Medical reasons, it's all fine and good and im petite so i only get it for like 5 days at the max. but its just i might want to for other reasons like if something happens between me and my bf.. but i dont wanna tell mom that and it isnt fair i mean its not like my parents kept it in their pants till they were married LOL

- from me and my other pals; we share the same issues XD

2006-11-06 08:30:18 · 24 answers · asked by tinkerbellavic 1 in Singles & Dating

I often see people with 'theme' colours for wedding, 'chocolate' and various shades of blue being the most popular. I wonder if these people realize 'chocolate' simply amounts to brown. Like dirt. Haha. :) What are some lesser used colours? I'm already set on my colour scheme (rainbows, sure! Haha, kidding ;D) but am curious of the ideas of others. :)

2006-11-06 08:30:10 · 15 answers · asked by teabunny 2 in Weddings

2006-11-06 08:30:08 · 4 answers · asked by shaukat a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend pushed her away. I am really upset with her because we were best friends for 4 years and I couldn't believe she would do that. I told her that she isn't a friend and I never wanted to see her again. I trust my boyfriend and I know that he wouldn't lie to me because we have been together for almost 2 years and we even are planning to get married in the future. However, I am still super pissed at the situation and I would like to forget about it. Can someone give me ideas on how to let this go?

2006-11-06 08:29:54 · 6 answers · asked by *mxgirl115* 2 in Friends

So my crush is a bifemale whom hapens to get alot of attention from guys and i see girls talking to her also but im not sure if they see her as a friend or as a gf. I've always given her attention as far as eye flirting goes, and she really enjoys it. She even aited for me after class, so her n i can eye flirt or watevr. She acts like i'm the only girl that has ever flirted with her and why does like my attention so much, she can pretty much get anyone she wants?

2006-11-06 08:29:51 · 1 answers · asked by dnice 1 in Singles & Dating