Family & Relationships - 6 November 2006

I have been out with a girl from work, I thought she liked me, but she did it for a laugh with her mates she called me a jerk, i am 37 and this was the first i have been out with anyone, i cant ask mammy about this as she is 75 and ill i can`t go to work tomorrow as they will laugh at me

2006-11-06 08:29:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is that mean or can I say I meant it in a sweet way?

2006-11-06 08:28:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does that mean he likes you? In technology today, me and my crush((he likes me back)) were a room((by ourselves together)) we didnt really even talk, we just made faces at eachother... though i kind of wanted to kiss him! But anyways his face was turning all red! What's that mean? I thought it was kind of funny!

2006-11-06 08:27:46 · 7 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

I am two months with my boyfriend and I love him.He suprises me with presents all the time, he gave me roses, cd-s and a veryyyyy beautifful big teddy bear but he gives me all that stuff although there is no some special occasion.He always says ''I can't show you how much I love you with words, so I want to buy you something''I feel that I should buy him something also, because I think it is a shame if I don't do that.I want to show him my attention.What should I buy him because I have no idea??????Guys what would you like to get from your girlfriends as a present, and girls what you buy to your boyfriends????Tell me!

2006-11-06 08:27:12 · 3 answers · asked by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

In case you are wondering, the white stuff is cu*

2006-11-06 08:26:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Am i crazy or what!!? i cant believe i did this!! OMG!!?
I was at a party this weekend and ...well... was dared to do something so i did it! i slept with another girl...but while a bunch of people watched!!! OMG! yes i even let them take my leg off!,(i am an amputee,)and some guy drank beer out of it!! eww! The bad part is i think i enjoyed the action with the other girl! is this crazy.? let me know if i am nuts.!

2006-11-06 08:26:26 · 13 answers · asked by brittney i 1 in Singles & Dating

my guy friend is going through some thing with his (ex)girlfriend and i don't know if he wants to talk to me about it cuz like i think he likes me and i think that's one of the reason why she broke up with him but he thought they broke up a week a go and she all of a sudden starts talking to him saying its over but should i talk to him or what?

2006-11-06 08:25:34 · 2 answers · asked by clair 2 in Friends

I just don't understand why some women don't let go of men when it is over b/c he has a CRAZY ex from another planet, and yes folks there was baby mamma drama but she happened to be a skank and lied b/c she didn't know who the daddy was. I had to deal with constant calls of her asking my guy questions about "their" baby. Basically there was no paternity test b/c she's too big of a liar and through her lies about me (she knows nothing about me) sometimes he believed her rather than me. The thing that gets me the most is that he actually looked and sounded sad when he found out that she was lying and it was a great possibility that it wasn't his. I feel very disadvantaged b/c I had to go through all of these just to see him hurt over someone from his past when he is with me and I did nothing like that to him. Is it b/c that was his first?? He even says he wants to marry me, but I don't know if it will work?

2006-11-06 08:25:21 · 2 answers · asked by Nilla 1 in Singles & Dating

Well she's my high school sweetheart and we broke off on a bad note 5 years ago due to a lot of tension, this tension began because I needed some time alone and apparently from her point of view I was breaking up.

Anyway, the damage was done and we broke off. I made attempts to reconcile because I still loved her, but never worked out.

After her telling me to leave her alone I did so. Now 5 years later, she contacts me to wish me a happy bday because it was one of those days she can never forget.

What a mind blower! I didn't know how to reply!

However, I still have feelings for her because of all the girls I have been with, I have always had this soft spot for her. My first instinct was to reconcile with her again... but my intuition was telling me not to because it was too early and she's probably not the same person as before.

Now to restate my question, should I move on with my life or make another attempt to reconcil?

2006-11-06 08:24:38 · 21 answers · asked by EasyCheezyLemonPeachy 2 in Singles & Dating

Just curious about what makes a girl like a guy, like what kind of things turn a girl on or such. I'm wondering so I know more on the subject. Thanks.

2006-11-06 08:24:06 · 10 answers · asked by Snake 2 in Singles & Dating

when do i start planning??

i am so excited about the wedding and i want to get everything now, but i know i have over a year to plan everything...

2006-11-06 08:22:30 · 26 answers · asked by camille 1 in Weddings

Ladies and Guys who have expereinced this:
Well It happened to me often that a girl somehow shows some kind interest like smiling and out of no where talking and things that make me think she is kinda interested.
Well after a week or two , she is totally changed. No smile no talking or anything.
Why do ladies do that? Is it a sign of being bot interested or something else?
P.S you can include any releveant experiences you have

2006-11-06 08:22:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been married for 5 yrs. now and our sex life sucks! he has no control at all or maybe he just don't care! but it has been 3 yrs. now sence i have had a climax! he acts as though he is gods gift in bed so me offering him advice would be harmful to his ego. he pops so quickly that i can never reach that climax area! what would you advise me to do? i would fear foreplay on him due to the mess i would be! he never offers foreplay!
help........?

2006-11-06 08:22:00 · 21 answers · asked by hey_girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girl is pregnant and I haven't got sex in months I'm horny as hell,I don't want to cheat what do you recomend?

2006-11-06 08:21:43 · 2 answers · asked by PR 4 in Friends

My cousin and I laugh all of the time about all of the BEAUTY ENHANCEMENTS that us women have out there and how some women need more enhancements then others, would you say that these lists of things are deceitful to a man and should a man already know the possibilities behind all the enhancements? In other words, shouldnt he already know that she does these things to feel good about herself and that if the relationship turns into a good one then he will get to see her w/out all the enhancers? We don't see anything wrong with enhancers but I have always wondfered if men feel like this is false advertisement.?.....
false nails/tips ( not your true length or thickness)
eyelashes ( same as above)
extensions/hair color ( same as above)
makeup ( depends on how much you wear)
push up bras ( real ones not as high up as the bra indicates)
girdles ( not as firm or flat as it may appear)
etc........

2006-11-06 08:21:37 · 3 answers · asked by Charisma 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 08:21:21 · 8 answers · asked by jkay 1 in Singles & Dating

Its been 3 long years since he broke up w/ me. But he keeps coming around. It hard for me to turn my back on him. I dont look for him, he's the one calling, ringing my door bell & sending me emails I dont even want to be his friend anymore. I cant move on if he's still in my life. He's just using me and I just want him out of my life. How can I tell him to F off w/out being nasty???

2006-11-06 08:20:29 · 14 answers · asked by Licy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Since my son was born, my mother-in-law has been moreso fighting with me over attention. She has to be centre of attention and has pushed me further away because of her controlling behaviour. She recently became violent and has pushed me around before. Now I am terrified of her and my father-in-law can sense an atmosphere when we visit them. I basically refuse to visit because im scared of what she will do next and I only agree to go to take the grand children. Now my father-in-law has sided with her and is making me out to be the one with the problem but everybody who knows her she alienates so what do i do? Do I put up with it for my husbands sake or carry on as I am?

2006-11-06 08:20:21 · 11 answers · asked by Scatty 6 in Family

My ex wants custody of our youngest daughter (12) after me having her all this time ! We have 2 older girls (16&15) . We've been seperated for 10 years . And now he wants custody of only our 12 year old . All live with me . But he only wants the youngest . So that way he can get out of paying 6 more years of Child support . He has no regards to how this makes our other 2 girls feel . Like" why isn't Daddy wanting custody of us too" ? THis makes them feel as if they are not worth fighting for . How do you fellow readers think of him ? And what do you think a Judge will say ? I've had them all this time , I take them to and from school , doctors apps. , pick them up from school when they are sick . I am a stay at home Mom . That has dinner waiting for them . They have 2 younger siblings here at my house also . Will a Judge look at NOT seperating the girls ? He has domestic violence against me and his ex girlfriend after me . And drug charges on him . And oldest found pot in his car .

2006-11-06 08:20:02 · 18 answers · asked by Imamommy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-06 08:19:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When i kiss my partner it feels right to close my eyes, or is it better with eyes open?........so what do think open or closed?......

2006-11-06 08:19:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 3 months. This past weekend, I walked in on him and another person. Im devestated, but Im not... mad. I love him so much and cant imagine not having him with me. At the same time, Im scared to death that Ill be hurt worse if I keep trying to make this work. My head is spinning and my heart is hurting. Has anyone else dealt with this, and stayed in the relationship AND found it to be successful?

If you have any advice, please share it.

Serious responses only please!

2006-11-06 08:19:11 · 5 answers · asked by evanthegayguy18 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex wants custody of our youngest daughter (12) after me having her all this time ! We have 2 older girls (16&15) . We've been seperated for 12 years . And now he wants custody of only our 12 year old . All live with me . But he only wants the youngest . So that way he can get out of paying 6 more years of Child support . He has no regards to how this makes our other 2 girls feel . Like" why isn't Daddy wanting custody of us too" ? THis makes them feel as if they are not worth fighting for . How do you fellow readers think of him ? And what do you think a Judge will say ? I've had them all this time , I take them to and from school , doctors apps. , pick them up from school when they are sick . I am a stay at home Mom . That has dinner waiting for them . They have 2 younger siblings here at my house also . Will a Judge look at NOT seperating the girls ? He has domestic violence against me and his ex girlfriend after me . And drug charges on him . And oldest found pot in his car .

2006-11-06 08:19:09 · 15 answers · asked by Imamommy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have read many questions posted here and have my own life experience. This sems so easy to me. Give your husband what he needs so he is not tempted to find it elsewhere.

Yes of course you as a husband should be romantic, caring and attentive to her needs.

Many women though just have a block when it comes to this one. The excuse of "I am tired" "he should just do without" "it's not that important".

Do you know how many married men see prodtitutes for the one sex act their wives will not perform? (almost took down a president)

Ladies, discount this all you wish but do not later some back here asking the question:

Why did he cheat on me.

As for me, after years of going through this perhaps I will stray.

2006-11-06 08:19:03 · 29 answers · asked by onlineseeker 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Then he tells u he doesnt remember and he was drunk?

2006-11-06 08:18:36 · 12 answers · asked by ms.pink 1 in Singles & Dating

On the show he said he did. He said he was leaving to go to college. Then Joe filled his spot.

2006-11-06 08:15:51 · 2 answers · asked by Igobeg O 3 in Family

Have you ever wanted to have a baby but you are not married or your not even in a relationship?

I've wanted to have a child since I was 16 (I'm now 22) and everytime I see a young child or baby I get jealous or everytime I see a child or a baby without a mom because she left I will get so mad at the person who left, thinking how could they do that.

Am I wierd or do some of you go through this to.

2006-11-06 08:15:30 · 3 answers · asked by Vixen 2 in Family

lately i feel kind of dreamy. as if im watching my surroundings. kind of like if im at the store i look around and its like i am separated from everything and and im watching them, even though im there it feels like im watching them from somewhere else. lately ive also not been getting enough sleep. could this be the problem? this feeling isnt severe its just bothersome also it tends to disappear when im not thinking about it and ive got my attention on something else. but as soon as i think about it it pops up. in general i just feel like im sorta dreaming. do you guys ever feel this way when you dont get enough sleep? ive only been getting 5 hours a night for 3 weeks, and it feels like i could fall alseep anytime

2006-11-06 08:15:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am leaving here on the 18th December to start a new job...will be weird spending christmas in a foreign country, hope the weathers ok....who's going abroad and where to?

2006-11-06 08:14:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have tried 4 different categories and all said "drat there is nothing in theis category right now"

2006-11-06 08:14:35 · 2 answers · asked by Big Mama 3 in Other - Family & Relationships