My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 3 months. This past weekend, I walked in on him and another person. Im devestated, but Im not... mad. I love him so much and cant imagine not having him with me. At the same time, Im scared to death that Ill be hurt worse if I keep trying to make this work. My head is spinning and my heart is hurting. Has anyone else dealt with this, and stayed in the relationship AND found it to be successful?
If you have any advice, please share it.
Serious responses only please!
2006-11-06 08:19:11 · 5 answers · asked by evanthegayguy18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honestly, look at him and ask "Do you love me, or do you want to just **** around?" if he tells you the first one, you lay down ground rules, and if he even breaks one, you dump him. Forgive the first time, but never the second.
2006-11-06 10:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way this could ever work is if you find out why he cheated and then you get really mad! Do not allow this behavior. You are worth more than that and loving someone who treats you like crap will get you nowhere fast! Change is a scarey thing, no one likes it but sometimes you have to make changes in your life and relationships that suck but are better for you in the long run. DON'T BE A VICTIM! TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE!! HE ISN'T WORTH IT!!!
2006-11-06 08:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by Big Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think this was the first time he has cheated? How many other times has it happened and you didn't walk in? These are the questions I would be asking myself. I don't think I live with the thought of him doing it again, always on the back of my mind. I have had this happen and it was just easier to let him go.
2006-11-06 08:24:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the same thing except my man of 4 years got the girl pregnant. Want to forgive him but don't know if I can or if I can accept the baby. I guess we have to follow our hearts. I want to be with him but know I can't unless I accept the baby because she is apart of him.
2006-11-06 09:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by mocha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"cheated on you"-u still want to make it worth- move on- you will find plenty out there- you will never 100% trust him again
2006-11-06 08:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by Jinha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋