Ladies and Guys who have expereinced this:
Well It happened to me often that a girl somehow shows some kind interest like smiling and out of no where talking and things that make me think she is kinda interested.
Well after a week or two , she is totally changed. No smile no talking or anything.
Why do ladies do that? Is it a sign of being bot interested or something else?
P.S you can include any releveant experiences you have
2006-11-06 08:22:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a sign of losing their interest in you, maybe?
2006-11-06 08:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by Earthling 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Well are you a considerate person??? Are you coming on a little too strong? Maybe your so anxious ...your coming off a little desperate looking??!! Anyway, when that certain someone comes along it will be no problem...consider yourself lucky---if these girls changed their minds at least you haven't had to go through any of the drama that goes along with the first couple of dates!!!
I work in a grocery store , in the last 10 years there been have times where men have mistaken good customer service for interest.
Don't mistake interest for friendship for interest for a relationship....besides one of these friends just might lead you to Ms. Right
2006-11-06 08:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We men make the mistake of thinking a smile or a out of the blue "hello" mean she is interested. That most of the time is not the case. Don't mistake kindness as a sign that she wants you to ask her out.
The no smiling or talking could mean she is having a bad day, going through PMS, etc....
If you not sure, just ask her how things are going. Don't ask her if she is mad just keep it simple to get the possible answer you want.
It sounds like you like this girl correct me if I am wrong.
2006-11-06 08:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing hard to understand about that. Just that there is more to life than those three things. Why don't you explore life a little bit more and maybe you'll understand the rest of the human population a little bit better! Good luck with your 3 feelings philosophy!
2016-05-22 05:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could just have been being friendly. If she would have kept it up then perhaps she was interested. Also, some girls are really fickle and could change their minds quickly. I know... it's confusing. But I feel the same about guys. ;-)
2006-11-06 08:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,for me it's like this(P.S.I'm a girl,so maybe we think alike):one week I like a boy,and the next week I don't:it's sorta like a phase I went through.It maybe that,or she might be going from that "mode"to playing hard-to-get.A lot of ladies do that;they go from one strategy to another.Sometimes,though,it might be that she saw someone else that she liked.But,either way,just go for it; just be straight forward with her and ask her if she likes you,and if she doesn't give you an answer,ask her out.I hope it solves your problem!
2006-11-06 08:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by Brittany S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a sign of disinterest. For whatever reason, she is trying to push you away, maybe to keep you from getting more hurt by her blatantly saying she rejects you. She may not want to commit or she may just not be interested in you at this time.
2006-11-06 08:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by Wookie on Water 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The smiling means you might have a chance but quit smiling like and idiot get over here and talk to me.
2006-11-06 08:24:31 · answer #8 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens to me all the time...a guy will be so friendly with me, then when i just flirt a little (not wanting a relationship or anything, just friendly flirting), they back off. it could be that she's lost interest or that she just wants a friendly relationship. my advise is talk to her. ask her what's going on, and if you want to be really bold, ask her where the relationship is going. if it's meant to be it will be. look at it that way:-)
good luck!!
2006-11-06 11:08:56 · answer #9 · answered by trisha_r_c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not interested anymore. But that is not just a woman thing, men do it too.
2006-11-06 08:27:09 · answer #10 · answered by wv_country_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means she doesn't like you, she's just being friendly at first. but then once you think that she's flirting with you and you try to flirt back, she realizes that you perceived being friendly as flirting, so now she wants to get as far away from you as possible just to make sure you know that she doesn't want to go out with you.
2006-11-06 08:25:24 · answer #11 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋