Is he worth it? I have been with this guy for a while now, but the main word is drama and more drama.?

Question

I just don't understand why some women don't let go of men when it is over b/c he has a CRAZY ex from another planet, and yes folks there was baby mamma drama but she happened to be a skank and lied b/c she didn't know who the daddy was. I had to deal with constant calls of her asking my guy questions about "their" baby. Basically there was no paternity test b/c she's too big of a liar and through her lies about me (she knows nothing about me) sometimes he believed her rather than me. The thing that gets me the most is that he actually looked and sounded sad when he found out that she was lying and it was a great possibility that it wasn't his. I feel very disadvantaged b/c I had to go through all of these just to see him hurt over someone from his past when he is with me and I did nothing like that to him. Is it b/c that was his first?? He even says he wants to marry me, but I don't know if it will work?

Answer 1

When i first started dating my current boyfriend this is EXACTLY what happened.. and I kind of knew she was lying but I felt too new to our relationship to tell him. She would call him/txt him in the middle of the night. It made me sick to my stomach but i stood by his side. He finally found out she was lying and apologized to me for pushing me to the side. Things are better now ( I mean in regards to this) but i often wonder if he go out of his way for me like he often did with her. I often wonder why i did it because sometimes i think he forgot about how I was always there for him.
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In regards to your question, if you feel that he is worth it than he is. Just be careful not to get hurt.

Answer 2

I forgot what your question was. Be careful what he tells you because you never know what the truth of the matter is. I would hold off on calling her names unless you are sure that she is no good. If something doesnt sound right, it probably isnt. I personally wouldnt be able to deal with a boyfriends ex/baby momma if she was out of control. good luck!