ok so i'm in luv w/ my present boyfriend but i still care about my ex-boyfriend and he wants to talk to me and so do i but lk i have no idea of wat to do. i think i'm gonna talk to my ex-boyfriend but only as friends cuz not only am i in luv right now so lk i need help because i don't kno whether cheating on him will make me fell happy or sumthing cuz a part of me wants to but then part of me doesn't so lk help. or at least advice
2006-11-06 08:35:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are not in-love.
2006-11-06 08:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's perfectly normal to have some lingering feelings for an ex - you're just remembering all the good times you shared. BUT that doesn't mean you should act those feelings - there is a reason you broke up with your ex and a reason you love your new boyfriend.
If you cheat with your ex then you disrespecting BOTH relationships, and proving that you are not worthy of either man. Show some self-respect and honor the love you feel - if you're not capable of that, then you should break up with your boyfriend.
2006-11-06 08:41:21 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, first off if you are thinking about cheating on your boyfriend, chances are you arent in love with him as much as you say you are. Secondly, if you are going to talk to your ex, it should be only as friends and try not to let him persuade you to do anything you will regret. If you do want to be with your ex, have the courtesy to break up with your present boyfriend first. The guilt from cheating will be 1000 times worse unless you break up with him before you do anything.
2006-11-06 08:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by missyavi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to hear this, I'm sure, but you are not in love. You don't consider cheating on your boyfriend if you love him. So...break up with him. Spare him the agony of being with someone who is considering messing around with her ex. If you're conflicted about this, get out of the relationship so you can get a clearer perspective. Good luck.
2006-11-06 08:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by ixi26c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear if you still want to "spend time" with the ex-bf then you really don't love the new bf.
If you care for someone (truely care) honor the commitment you made to that person, or at least have and open dating relationship. You are going out with each other but still free to see others.
2006-11-06 08:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't cheat because your in love with your present boyfriend and IF you do cheat what will happen if he figures it out?? He might break up with you and you might still be in love with him...You and your ex-boyfriend broke up and if you REALLY truly love him then break up with your present boyfriend so he doesn't get as hurt as he does if he found out you were cheating..Well I hope you make a good choice. Good Luck!
2006-11-06 08:40:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, how can you mistake one for the other? As much as it sucks to break up, he cheated on you and it sounds like he told her what to say or she convinced him to say it. Either way, it is lame and it's still cheating.
2016-05-22 05:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are truly in "love" with someone, then cheating on this is not even going to cross your mind.... and by the way your spell and sound from your question...you are not even old enough to know what love is..
I'm guessing your not even old enough to have a boyfriend. let alone being sexual with someone.
2006-11-06 08:39:36 · answer #8 · answered by britt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not going to make you feel any better in the long run. dont cheat if you have something good. it will come back and bite you in the behind. how would you feel if the situation were reversed? you wouldnt feel too good.
2006-11-06 08:38:50 · answer #9 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you like it if he cheated on you? with him? or another female. how would that make you feel? talk to present one and ask him what he would do if iy happened, like it did to a friend you heard about. then you will know
2006-11-06 08:38:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, are you serious? How old are you? Don't ever cheat on a partner... you dumb.
2006-11-06 08:40:04 · answer #11 · answered by spacecommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋