Family & Relationships - 6 November 2006

My husband and I have been married for a year and a month. Before we got married we got along so good and everything was perfect. He was the one who drove 4-5 hours just to see me on the weekends only 5 hours a day and left every sunday. He did this for more than a year. After we got married, it wasn't even a month yet and I was already feeling depressed. He didn't come home from work early no more. Every time he called from his lunch hour he wouldn't even talk to me for 10 minutes and he was starting to ignore me everytime we had a problem. Now he's yelling at me in front of my parents just because I took my mom out shopping. I only see her once a week. He says that if I'm visiting my parents why even go out. 1) My father gave my mom and me money to go shopping. 2) My father was working till 7pm 3) My husband was too busy helping my dad on his property with my brother and plus he's the one who told me to go with my mom. After we came back, he was all pissed as if I did something wrong

2006-11-06 12:38:04 · 2 answers · asked by shy_gal2 3 in Marriage & Divorce

this is my 2nd year in the US.am dark chocolate and am a junior in high school.i feel so sad at times becuz i had a lot of friends in my old school,and i was popular.my old school was a boarding school in Africa.
here,am mostly known for my big butt,i have like only 5 friends and the rest are guys who want to go out with me and do the NASTY thing with me cuz of my body.they always want to touch or feel,but i say no becuz i have to respect my body and i do not want to be called a slut or ..
i just want to make lot of friends and be popular for good things,am really friendly,but i am shy and i get this feeling that some girls hate me yet i am nice to everyone,even people i do not know!i also do not have a boyfriend becuz i am not sure who loves me for me or my body anymore.my friends have bf's and i don't.at least since i moved here! what makes it so hard for people to make me their friends cuz am so open.i want a boyfriend and i want lots of friends..dnt tell me to join group,not now.

2006-11-06 12:37:51 · 4 answers · asked by gabi c 2 in Singles & Dating

im kinda scared. im not sure if im going to be "good" at it...is your first kiss really as scary as everyone says? what are some good ways to prepare for it and how do you know when the guy wants to kiss you back?

2006-11-06 12:37:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend is a girl, i'm a girl everything she says is negative and it rubs off on me

2006-11-06 12:37:39 · 10 answers · asked by vballgrl1992 2 in Friends

well ma bf im texting him back n forth but it takes him hours to write back da last one he sent was on 5:52 n its 7:30 n i wrote back to him but he aint writing bck!! wats up wit dat???

2006-11-06 12:37:23 · 5 answers · asked by lil_triste_mija2313 1 in Singles & Dating

My son is 16 years old, and he is the best son I could ever ask for. He is so mature for his age, and he has been trying so hard to get a job, he has applied to so many places and has had many interviews, but people just dont want minors. He even offered to contribute to the bills, and pay for gas money! He also gets pretty good grades, has never fallen below an 80 overall, which I can't really argue too much with, since he is very bad in math. Since he is getting a job soon, should I allow him to have a cell phone? He offered to pay for it, by the way.

2006-11-06 12:37:19 · 35 answers · asked by LINDA G 4 in Family

I am a person where, i dont exactly have any guys as friends, but i want to. Now i am still in school and there are guys in my classes (obviously), but i dont know how to start a conversation where it is interesting and we would then, start talking regularly to each other as friends, etc. If you were kinda shy and when you talked to guys, you would try not to say anything stupid, what would you say to start to get to know each other and be freinds, and have a conversation, etc.?

2006-11-06 12:36:10 · 12 answers · asked by Cornelia Anabelle Banana Bo Peep 3 in Friends

my girlfriend birthday is coming up and i wanted to do something special for her. we been together for about 4 months and she kind of into model type stuff.

2006-11-06 12:36:02 · 10 answers · asked by 1 1 in Singles & Dating

I know that if I didn't have a son I would probably be divorced by now. It is so hard for me to share custody that it makes me want to stay married. It is also best economically for us so I can stay at home with him.

2006-11-06 12:35:55 · 17 answers · asked by golden2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever found yourself to be attracted to an asian guy?

2006-11-06 12:35:46 · 9 answers · asked by linko9789 1 in Singles & Dating

well my ex-b/f and I have been on and off for almost 2 years now and I absolutely love him to death.. but I dont know if he feels the same way even though he says he does.. I just recently talked to him earlier about getting back together but he said he needs time to think about it..he said he doesnt want to hurt me anymore like hes done in the past but also said that he still loves me and doesnt know what he'd do if anything ever happened to me... so my question is.. what should i do? should I wait for him.. or what? HELP..

2006-11-06 12:35:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok in gym today i looked really bad like my hair was messed up and stuff but anyway right after gym i go to my locker and i usually see jeremy and i try to look pretty and i try to act flirtalicious and well i try everything lol!!!! He knows i'm his bff but for some reason i like him!!! I need to stop liking him because there's this girl that he likes and i'm getting really jealous of her because when i start talking to him she pushes me away and says hi jeremy in a flirty way. Damn i hate her!!!! Anyway i'm trying to get a body like her and i'm getting my hair done with highlights and i'm getting it layered and do you know where she shops she shops at the same stores i shop at but she looks cuter in the clothes like she shops at hollister and american eagle yeah those are my top 2 stores and those are hers 2 but anyway i wish i didn't like jeremy but he's so sweet and he's so fun to be around with!!! Is there anyway i can be better than this girl?

2006-11-06 12:35:02 · 4 answers · asked by diamonds_are_love 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy in my community and my bro told him I did and now I'm too afraid to tell him my feelings because everytime I see him I run away and I really like him but I don't know wat to say because I don't know if he likes me back and I'm running out of time because I'm moving in about 2 weeks. What should I do?

2006-11-06 12:32:44 · 15 answers · asked by Calia C 1 in Singles & Dating

I made a bet with a girl and I lost horribly. Now for One Day I must dress up 100% girl and go places with her. This Is a 2 Part Question. What Should I Be forced To wear and Where Should I Have To Go With Her. The Only Rules Are No Shaving Of Hair and Nothing Homosexual. We also are trying to keep this REALLY cheap, so the cheaper you can make it the better. We are going to go on with this Bet after We have some really good replys on here.

2006-11-06 12:32:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

(or so to speak) I'm kinda shy and I want to be more outgoing and fun and talkative. I'm tired of being the quiet one who never gets invited anywhere. I want more friends and I want to go out and have fun. I don't necessarily want to be "popular" but I definitely want to not be afraid of people so much. How can I become more outspoken? Sometimes I feel like if I be myself that people won't like me so I just go along with whoever I'm with. How can I be myself with no worries and still have friends?!

2006-11-06 12:32:21 · 10 answers · asked by cjb 4 in Friends

2006-11-06 12:32:08 · 15 answers · asked by missprissy1004 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a co-worker who I really admire and respect. I am VERY attracted to him, and would like to ask him out. The problem is he is not of the same ethnicity and I am nervous about the whole thing.

2006-11-06 12:31:34 · 18 answers · asked by heartbroken 1 in Singles & Dating

My best-friend and I meet a new girl which were have hung out with for a few weeks! We were all invited to a party. The new girl sat on my husbands lap and put her arms around him, and whispered in his ear! Which upset my husband and I. I said something to my bf about and she said it was not a big deal! I think it is a big deal! THis has caused problems between my friend and I. She told me I was overeacting! AM I?? I think it was disrespectful! OH and my I should say old best friend is best friends with the girl who did this! I am so mad that I dont want to be friends with her! is that wrong of me??

2006-11-06 12:31:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-06 12:30:21 · 13 answers · asked by petifa 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been going out with the most awesome guy in the world for the past 9 months. However, i spent 3 months messaging other guys when i promised i wouldn't. I wasn't cheating on him nor was I attracted to any of the guys I messaged. He found out, and even though it broke his heart, he was kind enough to give me a second chance. What are some things I can do to earn back his trust ? I Really Really love him and want to make him happy, how can I build up his trust in me ?

2006-11-06 12:29:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 12:28:54 · 40 answers · asked by tricia l 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was at a sleepover sat. and I was dared to ask a cute guy out by writing him a letter. Well i did and I didn't want to give him the letter so my friend took it and gave it to him and I ran away b/c I was scared. And I have to hang out with him after school if my SATA bus is late (shiwassee area transportation agency) (I live in owosso Michigan) and I have to wait outside and his mom is always late, so when my bus is late, we talk, now things will just seen ackward and weird. what do I do, and plz don't say 'just ignore him' or 'tell him the truth' b/c if I ignore him he will think i and playing hard-to-get and that will be all weird, and I already told him the truth. Help!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-06 12:28:42 · 15 answers · asked by MRS. EFRON ♥ zac 3 in Singles & Dating

this happened to me

2006-11-06 12:28:01 · 2 answers · asked by emont_1029 2 in Friends

So today, during lunch at school, my friends and I were in a group. I'm 13 (8th grade) and while we were talking, the "leader" of our group had happened to say "(insert girl's name here) wears her pants up to her nipples" because she wears her pants high while she was walking behind him. She's very nice and she sits next to me and class and I like her(not as in girlfriend, but as she is nice to me, etc). So when she hears, she starting walking quickly towards her friends and she started crying. Two of her friends she went to are the two girls i like (as in girlfriend). I know they saw me with them and i'm afraid those two girls won't like me now, because they think that we were making fun of her even though I just felt really bad for the girl and even told the guy who said that unnessesary phrase to shut up. I don't think she heard, but I don't think I have a fighting chance with either of the girls now. What should i do? I really like them...

2006-11-06 12:28:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

every time i'm around this guy i can't stop laughing! i start cracking up at the gayist things...sometimes it works to bite on my tounge but i even made him smile lol i'm so retartded but lol!

2006-11-06 12:27:32 · 10 answers · asked by ..::xoxo::.. 3 in Singles & Dating

I have known that my husband still go to see his old girlfriend for couple months, he’s never admit about that, But he said: My love is ready to let you go so that you can find your own happiness and you don't have to be constantly worried about ME! My husband has nice heart to help a lot of people, include of me, I love him every much. How can I let my husband back to my side?

2006-11-06 12:27:03 · 7 answers · asked by Julie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If a girl had been molested would that stop you from asking her out, even if she had a great look and personality(like the girl from ur dreams)??? If so why?? If not why??

2006-11-06 12:26:59 · 19 answers · asked by Hott Gymnast 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my boyfriends birthday was today and i totally forgot and didnt have a present.so now i feel so guilty because i cant think of a present to bring him tommorrow,he told me his b-day was this week and i forgot and i barely got to say happy b-day :(

2006-11-06 12:26:51 · 5 answers · asked by Briley 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My name is Shannon Spears and I Know I have family in Louisiana,Oklahoma,Ohio,Texas,Colorado and Nebraska but I aint never met half of them and i would really like to. My daddy name is Albert Spears and my mama maiden name is Sheila Callahan but we could be related if u got the last name James too. I believe in family a lot so if u part of mines let me know and we can figure it out....THANKS!!!

2006-11-06 12:25:18 · 3 answers · asked by ShAy 1 in Family

2006-11-06 12:24:46 · 11 answers · asked by L 1 in Family