my friend is a girl, i'm a girl everything she says is negative and it rubs off on me
2006-11-06 12:37:39 · 10 answers · asked by vballgrl1992 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
WELL JUST DONT LET HER SAY STUFF TO U AND IF SHE DOES SAY THAT NOT VERY NICE OR STAY AWAY FOR A LITTLE WHILE OR TELL HER CAN U NOT ACT THAT WAY AND IF SHE IZ UR TRUE FRIEND SHE WILL RESPECT THAT/..... UR WLECOME XOXOXOXOXO
2006-11-06 12:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by ariana c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe it's time to move on and get more positive people in your life. Friends come and go always throughout your life, this is just something you will have to learn to accept. Let her know that her bad habits are rubbing off on you and you choose not to be around people who are negitive all the time. Negitivity spreads like a disease and is very contageous. If you havent figured this out by now, you will soon. You dont have to tell her in a rude way, just ask her to be a little bit more positive around you because the negitivity id getting you in trouble. If she's a true friend she will understand.
2006-11-06 12:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by Help Me Help You 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Despite how painful and blunt this may sound, the best thing I can tell you is to pick your friends with care and wisdom.
If you realize you're being negatively influenced by your friend (and we all are, it doesn't mean you're any more impressionable than the rest of us), I suggest you:
1) have a serious conversation with her about her negativity and its effect on you, and ask her to curb it for the sake of your own attitude, then
2) if over the course of the next two weeks there's not improvement, consider putting boundaries on how much time you spend together to try and keep your own attitude on track.
Ultimately, we need to be wise about those we hang out with, because it is INEVITABLE that you'll fall in line with those you spend the most time with.
It's a sad cliche - hang out with thieves, you'll start stealing. Hang out with violent men and women, you'll start responding with violence. Hang out with people with nothing positive to say about anything, well, you get my drift.
Best to you.
2006-11-06 12:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by Timothy W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to enlighten her. being negative can lead nowhere good.ultimately a negative mind must repair itself.
you see. i'm like that .if i keep on ,it becomes habitual.i do things that produce positive results.even if it;'s a small chore.
today i was crossing the street and i picked up a nail on the way.it's only a small posibility that it would cause a flat. but a flat might end up killing a family.(hypothetically.).i turned a negative thing into a positive thing.sometimes ya just have to feel negative; but not always.
2006-11-06 12:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by mechlined 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some positive friends too. And hope that they don't fight. Negative people often feel jealous.
2006-11-06 12:41:58 · answer #5 · answered by Chris P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might it would be a action picture star? Cuz i individually wouldnt recommendations being caught on one with my bf.... hee hee Um, I have no thought... Robert Frost? i like his poems... LMAO to the 1st avatar who replied this question... thats freaking hilarious!!!! we could kick his butt!!! hahaha
2016-12-28 14:52:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG I HATE MY TEACHER SHE IS A HOE AND MY MOM SAYS THAT I HAVE AN ATTITUDE BECAUSE OF IT.
2006-11-06 13:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by ejiggles82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that its wrong....and if she dosent listen shes not reallly a good friend..
2006-11-06 12:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by yahoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you hanging with her, do you have a reason ?
2006-11-06 12:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so dont be her
2006-11-06 12:38:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋