Why do I feel as if my husband doesn't give me the same respect as before?

Question

My husband and I have been married for a year and a month. Before we got married we got along so good and everything was perfect. He was the one who drove 4-5 hours just to see me on the weekends only 5 hours a day and left every sunday. He did this for more than a year. After we got married, it wasn't even a month yet and I was already feeling depressed. He didn't come home from work early no more. Every time he called from his lunch hour he wouldn't even talk to me for 10 minutes and he was starting to ignore me everytime we had a problem. Now he's yelling at me in front of my parents just because I took my mom out shopping. I only see her once a week. He says that if I'm visiting my parents why even go out. 1) My father gave my mom and me money to go shopping. 2) My father was working till 7pm 3) My husband was too busy helping my dad on his property with my brother and plus he's the one who told me to go with my mom. After we came back, he was all pissed as if I did something wrong

Answer 1

Something is bothering him. Maybe he is having trouble at work. Maybe he is having trouble adjusting to married life. Who knows?

Just pick a time when the two of you can sit down without accusing the other and talk calmly about this.

Answer 2

Try to avoid arguments with him by apologizing to him. Build him up and compliment him more. Something is bothering him and he needs to "built up". Make him a bath and as you bathe him, tell him how much you love him and how much you are there for him when he needs you. Keep all negative comments out of it and use words to build him. You'll see a difference.