well my ex-b/f and I have been on and off for almost 2 years now and I absolutely love him to death.. but I dont know if he feels the same way even though he says he does.. I just recently talked to him earlier about getting back together but he said he needs time to think about it..he said he doesnt want to hurt me anymore like hes done in the past but also said that he still loves me and doesnt know what he'd do if anything ever happened to me... so my question is.. what should i do? should I wait for him.. or what? HELP..
2006-11-06 12:35:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
-also his best friend died not too long ago and hes been having a hard time with that specially since it was so brutal and unexpected... so this might also be why he needs time... what do you think?
2006-11-06 12:54:17 · update #1
You need to actually show love through actions.
Anybody can say "I love you".
2006-11-06 12:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have a tendency to try to hold on to a good thing while they continue to explore other options if you know what I mean. 2 years is long enough for a person to know rather or not they want to make it work. I alway feel sorry for the people in on again off again relationships, it seems that someone always gets left holding he bag...I hope it is not you. Don not wait for him. Do yor thing. IF he comes around great! But if he doesn't you won't be mad at him or yourself because you would have moved on. remember, the same way you love him, you could love someone else. The difference will be that the new guy will love you back...
2006-11-06 12:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by Making Them Listen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't wait for anyone...if he was interested, he'd be with you...as for him loving you, perhaps he does but remember there are many types and levels of love...
Move on with your life...if he decides he wants to try again at some point, and you are available, then you can consider it...but don't wait around and waste time for something that may never come to pass...
2006-11-06 12:38:10 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to wait for someone very long. When you get tired of all the waiting, then move on with your life.
2006-11-06 12:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex is thiking about getting back to you-though he loves you. then he is making a clear statement saying that he is not wanting a relationship with you.why would you still go after him then? dont wait for him.i think you have waited long enough. he had hurted you once.why would you wait for a guy who is not sure of you, in his life?
2006-11-06 12:43:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. Life is too short....move on and find a nice guy who wants to be with you now, not MAYBE sometime in the future.
2006-11-06 12:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by salstick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GURL I FEEL DA SAME WAY TOO...YOU ARE IN MY POSTITON I AM RYTE NOW...MA BF OF BOUT TO BE A YEAR IS DA SAME I WENT UP TO HIM WHEN I FOUND OUT HE CHEATING N NOW IT OFF N ON BUT HE TELLS MEH HE LOVES MEH N DAT HE GNA B WIT MEH UNTILL DEATH N DAT HE ASKED MEH IF IM ALWAYS GONNA BE HIS LADY N I ****** REALLLYYYY LOVE HIM LIKE I CRY EVERYDAY JUS THINKING HE MAY NOT BE MINES NO MORE BUT WAT CAN WE DO I MEAN I WAITED FOR MONS CUZ IT BEEN MONS DAT I HAVENT TLKD TO HIM N RYTE NOW IM TLKN T HIM N HES TELLING MEH HE LOVES MEH BUT I DONT HAVE DAT FEELING DAT I HAD B4 OF BELIEVING MEH NOW I FEEL WAT HE SAYS IS CRAP BUT I WISH U NOE DAT HES TELLING DA TRUTH N IF HE ***** UP AGAIN **** HIM BACK BUT HARDEER MOVE ON N MEET SUM1 KNEW WHO ACTUALLY MEANS IT CUZ GUYS JUS TELL U WAT U WANNA HEAR
2006-11-06 12:54:28 · answer #7 · answered by lil_triste_mija2313 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i have a feeling he likes you and yes you should wait for him!!!
2006-11-06 12:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by diamonds_are_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋