My best-friend and I meet a new girl which were have hung out with for a few weeks! We were all invited to a party. The new girl sat on my husbands lap and put her arms around him, and whispered in his ear! Which upset my husband and I. I said something to my bf about and she said it was not a big deal! I think it is a big deal! THis has caused problems between my friend and I. She told me I was overeacting! AM I?? I think it was disrespectful! OH and my I should say old best friend is best friends with the girl who did this! I am so mad that I dont want to be friends with her! is that wrong of me??
2006-11-06 12:31:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
NO WAY!! He's YOUR husband and any person in their right mind would NEVER do that. This is NOT wrong of you. You have EVERY reason to feel disturbed by that. If talking to that person doesn't work, 'lose 'em and find people who respect you and your husband.
2006-11-06 12:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...you are wrong to not want to be friends with your friend because of something her friend did BUT you are totally right for being mad at the girl. She had no right to sit on your husband's lap. You are better than me because I would have threw her *** on the floor as soon as I saw her squat to sit. She wouldn't have been able to sit on his lap never the less whisper in his ear.
2006-11-06 20:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by mizzladyariel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you mean..but you might of overreacted,,,unless she told your hubby something really naughty..then you were right to want to kick her butt..but truth is mayb it was just nothing,,but it was disrespectful though..especially sitting on his laps..but maybe she didnt mean it in that way..anywho i say talk to her if you havnet already and let her go on a warning that you dont like it..and keep your distance from her but you dont have to completely stop talking to her..just let her know she crossed the line and if she does it again youre not speaking to her..besides everyone deserves the benifit of the doubt..
2006-11-06 20:37:52 · answer #3 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be mad that was wrong. If those two girls think that is OK to do they are not friends that you want. I have to say that was really slutty of her to do anyway. You just don't touch other peoples husbands.
2006-11-06 20:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by girlio33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was sititng on yuor husbands lap nibbling in his ear the next course of action is getting in hi spants. So no you are abolutely right.
Tell her and your friend that you don't put up with that kind of behavior.
2006-11-06 20:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not! That is rude and inconsiderate! Tell your two friends that flirting is flirting, and you don't want to hang out withanyone that will try and disrupt your marraige!
2006-11-06 20:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong of you, but it's very disrespectful of her. If you don't want to be friends with your friend, then don't.
2006-11-06 20:47:05 · answer #7 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say dump the B*itch who'd look past you and do something so disrespectful!
2006-11-06 20:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i think wat she did was wrong
2006-11-06 21:19:54 · answer #9 · answered by donielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋