I have been going out with the most awesome guy in the world for the past 9 months. However, i spent 3 months messaging other guys when i promised i wouldn't. I wasn't cheating on him nor was I attracted to any of the guys I messaged. He found out, and even though it broke his heart, he was kind enough to give me a second chance. What are some things I can do to earn back his trust ? I Really Really love him and want to make him happy, how can I build up his trust in me ?
2006-11-06 12:29:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It might be to late... once trust is gone it is hard to get back and it is hard to give....
2006-11-06 12:34:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh......EXCUSE ME.....how do you earn back HIS trust? Give me a break!!!! This guy owes YOU an apology and should be looking for ways to earn back YOUR trust. Talking to other guys is not cheating and your so-called "awesome" BF needs to grow up and learn how to show you some trust! What, are you gonna have to kiss his a** every time he finds out you spoke to another man? Good luck.....have a nice "unhappy" life.
2006-11-06 12:39:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By being honest you have started the ball rolling in the right direction. Be loving and honest and talk talk talk about what happened and what was in your mind. You cannot and should not tell him that you will never lie again, human nature and all that, but he needs to hear how badly you feel about hurting him and that you will endeavor not to have it happen again. Remember, when you don't know what to do, do the most loving thing that you can think of.
2006-11-06 12:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by kellenraid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you break that trust it is forever broken. If he has forgiven you that is great, but he will not ever forget what you did. It's just how people are. Once trust is broken it is forever gone and will never return.
2006-11-06 12:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by dread pirate lavenderbeard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard work time and no more lying and doing things that you promised you wouldn't
2006-11-06 12:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by kirkan1@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not messaging guys when you promised you wouldn't. and definitely don't lie about it!! what goes around comes around just remember that.
2006-11-06 12:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by bg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't im sory your a lier and a backstabber no boy can forget it!! put it this way if your boy cheated on you would u still like him!!
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2006-11-06 12:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by Craziness911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋