this is my 2nd year in the US.am dark chocolate and am a junior in high school.i feel so sad at times becuz i had a lot of friends in my old school,and i was popular.my old school was a boarding school in Africa.
here,am mostly known for my big butt,i have like only 5 friends and the rest are guys who want to go out with me and do the NASTY thing with me cuz of my body.they always want to touch or feel,but i say no becuz i have to respect my body and i do not want to be called a slut or ..
i just want to make lot of friends and be popular for good things,am really friendly,but i am shy and i get this feeling that some girls hate me yet i am nice to everyone,even people i do not know!i also do not have a boyfriend becuz i am not sure who loves me for me or my body anymore.my friends have bf's and i don't.at least since i moved here! what makes it so hard for people to make me their friends cuz am so open.i want a boyfriend and i want lots of friends..dnt tell me to join group,not now.
2006-11-06 12:37:51 · 4 answers · asked by gabi c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Know people better, ignore the guys, stick with people you trust and make those people go with you to meet other people to improve your relationship with friends. Boyfriends are not always the perfect solution, just meet people for now, if you have a lot of friends and you are miss popular again (which I think you can be) than begin to know more guys and so on, as time passes by, you'll find a perfect soulmate for you...
2006-11-06 12:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by JMCG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes finding a bf and friend is hard for those who was born and raised in the USA. It just takes time and being at the right place at the right time. good luck
2006-11-06 12:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by Magica! Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweetheart the only way to be popular and meet people is to join a group....can you play sports? how about student council? you're gonna to get involved with different activities to meet people and become popular...
2006-11-06 12:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
elcome to the western world of snobs,,well,,sometime's people here are just not that freindly,,i hope someday u find the one who loves u for ur heart and not body,,plz dont give into these creeps..wait for mr.right
2006-11-06 12:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋