I like this guy in my community and my bro told him I did and now I'm too afraid to tell him my feelings because everytime I see him I run away and I really like him but I don't know wat to say because I don't know if he likes me back and I'm running out of time because I'm moving in about 2 weeks. What should I do?
2006-11-06 12:32:44 · 15 answers · asked by Calia C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him. He already knows, so just confirm it. If he doesnt like you back...well, ur moving so nothing bad is gonna happen. But you have to tell him before you move or you'll regret it! Just walk up and tell him someday, or if you dont have the courage, then write him a note or text him or something. point is, you need to tell him.
2006-11-06 12:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first off... BREATHE! Honey, take a deep breath, then let it out slowly. This feels like a Major Deal, but let's look at it closely:
> He already knows you might like him (your brother told him so - which means the guy is wondering if you do, or if your brother is yanking his chain)
> You're moving in 2 weeks.
That last is huge -- you...are...moving. This doesn't mean there's a deadline hanging over your head - it means there's only so much you can screw this up, because you're moving in two weeks.
Okay, the "every time I see him I run away" approach doesn't really work. For one thing, how can he figure out how he feels, when you keep running away? About all he's figuring out is how well you'd do if you joined the Track team.
The worst that can happen is that he doesn't return your feelings, which feels awful, but isn't fatal.
The best is that he returns your feelings.
He might just be open to the idea, but not sure how he feels.
Thing is, until you stop running, you'll never know which it is. How about this - he's your brother's friend. You see him, you say "Hi. How are you?" He's been told that you like him. If he likes you, he'll let you know -- but only if he can catch you.
Good luck!
2006-11-06 20:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie if you really like this guy then tell him dont be shy i know how bad it is I was very shy till i asked out my boyfriend i have had for over 2yrs and things are good! I think you just need to! And if your moving then just tell him and see where it goes i mean your goin to be leaving it want matter if your gone atleast you can say you tryed!!
2006-11-06 20:37:08 · answer #3 · answered by Kat_77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should at least tell him how you feel. who knows he might feel the same way you do but is afraid to tell you because your moving. are you moving far? if you dont tell him you will never know and always wonder about the what if????? i always say its better to tell someone how you feel then to regret it later on in life. and if he doesnt like you then you will at least know that much. good luck to you.
2006-11-06 20:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by joy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and begin by saying how difficult it is to do so because you are shy. Do not run away. What is the worst thing that could happen? Faint heart and all that
2006-11-06 20:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by kellenraid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should confess your love, anyway, the guy knows you love him already so why is it a bad idea to confess him your feelings if he knows it already? If you are leaving in 2 weeks than it is perfect time to confess your love because those 2 weeks can become the best weeks of your life...
2006-11-06 20:37:04 · answer #6 · answered by JMCG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel and if he doesn't like you the way that you like him ask if you can be friends. Maybe if you're lucky the friendship will grow. good luck 2 ya and follow my advice! it'll work trust me its happened b4 and i took my own advice and thats how i met my 3 year boyfriend! stick with me and you'll have that guy in no time flat!
2006-11-06 20:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by winkypink64 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your too shy just open up at the very least h'll say he doesnt like you so what ... listen thier someone out their for everyone.. its like they say couples are made in heaven .. & if ur just a i'll girl this aint love.. its infatuation.. dont get me wrong even adutls miss lead infatuation as love .. relax u'll get over it!
have fun with life but be carefull
2006-11-06 20:36:42 · answer #8 · answered by chirayu1990 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say tell him trust me you ewill feel so much better knowing what his thoughts are two maybe he is feeling the smae way. Plus if your moving in 2 weeks you might move on with out nowing wat there was in hope.
2006-11-06 20:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by tiny nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your moving in about two weeks, i think its better if you don't know if he likes you or not. if he like you, you would know it but your moving. does he like long distance relationship? and that kind of relations don't usually last Long because one's gonna end up cheating on one and another. if you don't tell him, he wont know it and after you move you might find someone else you like.
2006-11-06 20:37:44 · answer #10 · answered by mi2z_myst3ry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋