I have known that my husband still go to see his old girlfriend for couple months, he’s never admit about that, But he said: My love is ready to let you go so that you can find your own happiness and you don't have to be constantly worried about ME! My husband has nice heart to help a lot of people, include of me, I love him every much. How can I let my husband back to my side?
2006-11-06 12:27:03 · 7 answers · asked by Julie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sorry to have to tell u this but it sounds like he is still in love with his ex and that is why he's letting u go. Not much u can do about it but to let him go as well.
2006-11-06 12:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is seeing his old girlfriend because you are allowing it and it sounds like you love him and are afraid to get upset with him because he might leave you for her. He is having his cake and then some. He has the perfect situation for a man that wants to sleep with more than one woman. He has a wife at home that doesn't do or say anything about him sleeping with his old girlfriend and he gets to come home and sleep with you also. You should be discusted every time he wants to sleep with you because he was probably with her earlier. He most likely isn't using protection and what if she is sleeping with other men and not using protection either. Then you are putting your health at risk. He might have a nice heart and helps a lot of people but he is helping himself to two women also. Your husband has already made his choice by seeing this old girlfriend and he knows that it is wrong because he has never confessed to you that he is seeing her because he is a cheater and a liar and you are allowing this to happen. If you have not completely won is heart by now, I'm sorry to say that it is not going to happen now. Don't let this keep happening to you and your heart!
2006-11-06 12:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by Michael C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunatly he is saying he wants to set u free, he wants u to find love and be happy.he is telling u basically he wants to be with this other girl, and i know it hurts alot, and u don't want to let him go, but it's not going to be up to u, and it's not about u, it's about him and the other woman, sometimes other people's decisions and choices in life hurt us terribbly, sometimes we just have to let them go and let what ever is going on play out, as we have no control over the other person when they decide they want to be with someone else, we are just kidding ourselves that we can change the situation. just let him go, he won't be happy with u anyway, and your trying so hard to win his love, and once someone else is in our marriage little can be done to stop it. as i well know, been there and done that, tried, and nothing i did mattered to him.
2006-11-06 12:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve so much better. Set free the ones who wish to harm your heart!
2006-11-06 12:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with you?
I can't believe you put up with this ****!!!!!
give him an ultimatum,if he does not stop this bs,then pack his **** and tell him to get the **** out!!!!!
don't put up with that bs
2006-11-06 12:30:50 · answer #5 · answered by msalb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't let a cheater back,once a cheat always a cheat.
2006-11-06 12:29:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't. he's a cheater, leave him and go on with your life as much as it will hurt, you need to do that!
2006-11-06 12:33:47 · answer #7 · answered by jdchick48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋