Family & Relationships - 31 October 2006

I'm a high school senior and I like this girl which until recently was outta limits. I've already decided that I'm gonna make a move and it's going to involve what else but LOVE POETRY?!! so nobody's going to dissuade me (convince me not to) do this. I just wanna know what a bunch of random strangers think about this wonderful pearl I just pulled out of my... hat.

It’s hard to say in words
what I’m feeling to this day.
I try to open my mouth
but suddenly become afraid.
I know there is no future,
no purpose for this note.
This rose will go to waste,
I live with only hope.
Whether it lives or it dies,
I will walk out okay.

This rose grew from my heart,
at first a heavy burden.
I refused to believe,
I used to deny,
but now I can no longer hide this deep secret.

I have left the safety of my shell,
which did well to me.
Now I’m taking a chance.
Will I fall or will I fly?
It sounds improbable,
almost too obvious.
How can I fly when I have no wings?
But it’s a simple question,
with a simple answer.
was I tricked by my heart?
will I drown in the truth?
or will I take sudden flight,
in the skies, the deep blue?
if I am the fish,
you the ocean.
if I am the star,
you are the heavens.
if I were to tell you, who would believe
that Old Cupid’s arrow
has made a slave out of me?

2006-10-31 08:29:57 · 10 answers · asked by sdaoh 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 08:29:54 · 32 answers · asked by nima_kharrazi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im in the six grade and im a lil chuby but i know im pretty but some times i think they r flirting wit me

2006-10-31 08:28:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband wants to announce our pregnancy to his mother and his grandma at the same time.

He wanted to make them each license plate frames to open together.

My mother in law's frame would say: Happiness is being a grandma

And my grandma in law's would say: Happiness is being a great grandma.

This will be my mother in law's first grandbaby and the first great grandchild for my grandma in law.

I am worried my drama queen mother in law will be mad if she has to share the spotlight with her mother while opening the presents.

My mother in law has said she feels to young to be a grandma at 50, my grandma in law is going to cry from joy. Thank God someone will be happy (g-ma in law).

What do you think?

2006-10-31 08:28:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I see alot of answers so far and alot of requests for more info. Her husband and I have always had a brother picking on sister relationship. Whenever they needed money, I was there. Babysitter? Me again. Sick? I was there to take care of them or the kids. Go out of town? I took care of the house. When I met my boyfriend, I was not always available anymore. I met him thru a dating service and at first she was encouraging but it seemed the more attention I paid to him, the more weird she got. I hadn't dated in a verrry long time and she was used to having me at her beck and call, I think. My boyfriend tried to be friendly but her husband banned him from the house after the one and only time we had broken up and 4 years later,it still hadn't changed. I don't know why both of the friends we have in common stopped talking to me. I can only guess that one of the two, who seems to have taken my place as always there,do what you need, is just going along with whatever my former friend is sayin

2006-10-31 08:28:24 · 1 answers · asked by desdinova 5 in Friends

I was watching the penn and teller show and they had an episode opposing circumcision. Apparently there is huge movement to make the procedure illegal. They argued that not a single medical organization in the U.S.A. recomends the procedure and that it has no real medical benefits, other then lowering urine tract infections which are more easily curable with antibiotics then with circumcision. Do you think this procedure should be illigal???

2006-10-31 08:27:24 · 9 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just love my eyebrows
they make me look hot!
Straight square at the front
and high at the end
not too high!

2006-10-31 08:27:20 · 21 answers · asked by Pinky 5 in Singles & Dating

Is she cheating?

2006-10-31 08:27:13 · 30 answers · asked by only p 6 in Singles & Dating

There's a guy at school that I really wanted to go to this school dance with,..................but I found out he's takin another girl 2day. As soon as I heard my heart sunk so low!!! I didn't know I could feel so down!!! Now I don't even want to go. Everyone's got a date except for me!!! And there's no way I'mma step up in there all lonely!!! Should i still go or is it just a waist of time?

2006-10-31 08:26:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am planning my wedding - what books have people used and do you recommend them? Any great ones??

2006-10-31 08:26:50 · 7 answers · asked by TML 2 in Weddings

will be screwed up? Something I saw in my marriage and I can't forgive my husband for this. How do I?

2006-10-31 08:26:23 · 13 answers · asked by elaine_brc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Everything is set for our wedding in December but latley I have been having second thought about marrying him right now, I mean I Love him with all of my heart. He is deploying in January and am kind off mad at him beacuse his attitude has changed towrds me like he dosnet care for me in a way. He tells me he loves me but its hard at times because our conversations arent the same. What should I Do???????

Please help, no rude answers...Thanks for all of those who answer my question :)

2006-10-31 08:26:06 · 22 answers · asked by MrsRuiztobe 1 in Weddings

i cant talk to any girl.when i go to talk i get nervous.so i have no female friend.how can i get rid of this.on which topic should i talk while talking with a girl?

2006-10-31 08:25:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-31 08:24:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

about 4 months ago i was seeing this guy & everything was good i mean it wasnt perfect, but wat couple is? basically i am the 1 who ended it w/ him because 1 of his very close friends said he cheated on me w/ a girl who is completly opp of me & of course he denied it, but he had lyed about stupid lil things b4 & i trusted his best friend over him, something i no i shouldnt have done, but i didnt want 2 be the one 2 look like a complete idiot if he really did.. well i saw him at a fair about a month ago & we strted talking again that was until my comp was down 4 awhile.. well i got my comp back & he msged me & i found out the only reason he didnt call me or anything was because his friend told him that i liked him & that i no longer was interested in my him. he called me on sat & said how he wanted 2 c me & hang out.basically i feel we would still be 2gether if his friend wouldnt have lied 2 me & said he cheated on me & i still do have feeling 4 him.should i hang out w/ him & c wat hap

2006-10-31 08:24:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 08:23:50 · 21 answers · asked by John T 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 08:23:31 · 46 answers · asked by tracy d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is just my bf is gonna be gone for 2 1/2 years and its been 1 already and im just craving.i just want to do it once and thats all.plus he cheated once so y not.

2006-10-31 08:23:05 · 18 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 24 and have been in a 2 1/2 year relationship. I recently found out that my man cheated. I have always been interested in his brother, but I've held my feelings back. Is this the time to make my move?

2006-10-31 08:23:01 · 7 answers · asked by lizaa84 1 in Singles & Dating

I have had this friend since I was in the 5th grade, I am now 28 and he moved away and I went out to live with him for about 6 months and heard some crazy things about him from his friends out there. First of all...girls that he dated were absolutely beautiful and he is VERY good looking, and they broke up with him for not sleeping with them. Mind you...he is a bar tender at a hot club! Now... he gets OVER excited when his "friend" stops by to see him, let's just call his friend "Jon". And by over excited, I mean he literally jumped over my head while sitting on a couch to get to the door to see if his "friend" drove by, and doesnt even think twice about sleeping with any girl he has dated. And this being confirmed by ALL his guy friends and ex-girlfriends since he moved there! I don't know...I JUST NEED TO KNOW! He is such a close friend of mine and he won't even talk about it. Does anyone have an opinion?

2006-10-31 08:22:07 · 13 answers · asked by mslatin 1 in Singles & Dating

I need other ppl's opinions cuz family and friends all say the same thing because they don't like my b/f. He is 28 and I am 19. He moved in with me after the first date because I needed a room mate and he was looking to move outta his mom's again. I thought he'd help with bills but he doesn't. He doesn't pay rent, pud, cable, food, and when we go on dates I pay, except once because I forgot my wallet. I even paid on my birthday. The only bill he has is a 150 truck payment and a 450 child support. Yes I make .50 more an hour then him and I work more hours but a little help would be nice. I even took a second job so we could start looking for a house. I don't know where his money goes except into beater up trucks!! I am lucky to go out with him one night a week when he's not busy. I do love him and he says he loves me and we talk about our future but I want someone to support me. He says he is looking for a new job but he's said that 5 months ago. Is he just a sponge or will it change??

2006-10-31 08:22:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you feel

2006-10-31 08:21:33 · 4 answers · asked by krzy_me 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 08:21:30 · 5 answers · asked by Shushan 1 in Singles & Dating

Going for broke, leaving no stone unturned, all the stops pulled out...name the moves.

2006-10-31 08:21:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met this girl 2 months ago now she said I LOVE u and she meant it...im kind of feeling the same way is that possible in 2 months ????? HELP

2006-10-31 08:21:03 · 9 answers · asked by IceMan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

there is this boy i once dated i still liek him a lot and i dont no if he likes me or nott he knows i like him i wish he didnt how do i tell him i dont even though i do should i tell him i dont like him? we are freinds. but somtimes it feels hopeless tht we will ever go out again i just dont know wut to do! some 1 help!

2006-10-31 08:21:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes the truth just hurts! When he hurts you verbally, you take the chance to shoot back what's bad about him coz he just did it to you!? And if you wait later to tell him during happy times, you're not gonna be able to portray your true feelings coz you're happy! So this battle never ends! What should we do? Tell them or not?

2006-10-31 08:20:48 · 13 answers · asked by AskClara 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Has anyone ever taken the anti depressant Citalopram, and have they found it has affected their ability to orgasm? Any helpful advice appreciated!

2006-10-31 08:19:48 · 8 answers · asked by Char Char Gabor 3 in Singles & Dating

We were brought up not to do things like drinking or doing drugs. But it seems that when my brother went to college (total freedom!) he was somewhat influenced by his friends. He knows I know and he said that he'll stop, but eventually i found out that he hasn't! I know the effects of alcohol. It's like i've ntoiced that he's continuing because his friends do and he'd feel left out if he didn't! ( I tried giving all my advice but he doesnt care!) I really want to help but don't know how cuz im really not close to my brother. Is there anything i can do to make him realise what he's doing is wrong? (by the way, my brother is 23 now!)

2006-10-31 08:19:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Its been 3 years since my fiance left me and broke my heart and one year since my new boyfriend left me and also broke my heart. Now I can't get close to people, I don't seem to have any emotional feelings for anyone. Is this normal? How do I overcome this?

2006-10-31 08:19:00 · 8 answers · asked by BabyCakes 3 in Other - Family & Relationships