Its been 3 years since my fiance left me and broke my heart and one year since my new boyfriend left me and also broke my heart. Now I can't get close to people, I don't seem to have any emotional feelings for anyone. Is this normal? How do I overcome this?
2006-10-31 08:19:00 · 8 answers · asked by BabyCakes 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get back on that bike and ride , it hurt when u fall, but great while riding.
2006-10-31 13:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by bigslick60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal and also sad. I have a hard time getting "close" to anyone after a terrible cheating wife destroyed my belief in women years ago. I have hundreds of good friends and they all want me to start dating again and probably will as soon as I meet someone with the morals I am looking for. Good luck to ya!!
2006-10-31 16:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by gary t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take time just for yourself -- get monthly spa treatments, find a fun hobby to enjoy, spend time with friends and family. It's OK to just be alone for a while and do your own thing. It sounds like you've been thru a lot.
2006-10-31 16:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will have to let go of the past and learn to trust again. And, start focusing on you and the kind of guys you give your heart too.
2006-10-31 16:21:50 · answer #4 · answered by loves2dream2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure its called shell shocked you will get over it like a ton of bricks.
2006-10-31 16:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is normal. Time and keeping yourself occupied will help.
2006-10-31 16:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its normal... you will get those feelings back when you want them back! some guy will sweep you off your feet and at first youll be like... hmm i dont love him and when he leaves your gonna be like.. holy crap what was i thinking and you'll go get him back!!
2006-10-31 16:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by c t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are only scared but once you trust yourself you can start again
2006-10-31 17:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by chiorean m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋