Family & Relationships - 29 October 2006

As we embarq on our 2nd year of dating he has asked me to marry him. I have turned him down before because he has to know I am NOT interested in having more kids and that I take marriage very seriously.
He claims that since he was raised in an orpahange and was lonely all growing up he never wants to take the chance to do that to any children to leave them alone.
We have alot in common and alot not in common but we spend hours justt walking and talking. I love him very much but am afradi of the risk any ideas?

2006-10-29 07:40:28 · 24 answers · asked by newtooocala 2 in Singles & Dating

so ,,,,me and MR-Moody got a big fight that day and we almost broke up...a friend of mine helped to get things back between us...now he seems so cold towards me.... how can i grab his attention back....i know he loves me but he tries to play it hard ...
when i call he tells me he's busy or he won't pick up....i send him an sms he would reassure me that he's okay but he's busy now....and won't call me back or sms me later ...
I feel lonely with out him....

by the way,he told my friend that i was always the first one to know his day details and his daily news...but now i can't even hear from him.. i would like to be his sweety speacial back again... his Secret WELL what shall i do...GUYS Help...GIRLS...help....

2006-10-29 07:39:43 · 2 answers · asked by sweet cherry78 2 in Singles & Dating

1) Why do women say that men are bad at communicating in relationships, yet they are the ones who don't communicate. Example- Guys hear this alot from the ladies:"I shouldn't have to tell you. If you really loved me, you would already know" (sound familiar?)

2006-10-29 07:38:58 · 14 answers · asked by chuck3011 3 in Marriage & Divorce

After a dance i asked the girl that i danced with (i can't dance very well) if shed like to be my girlfriend and she said yes now I want to go hang out with her but i'm really shy and dont know what we'd talk about. (my last girlfriend was quiet so we didnt talk much and so thats why she broke up with me.)Help plz im really confused

2006-10-29 07:38:58 · 7 answers · asked by Kavic 1 in Singles & Dating

my cousin seems interested in me. Is it real love or family affection? We hav kissed and all but theres a huge age gap. What do i ask him to see if hes really interested or not WITHOUT offending him or embarrasing myself??

2006-10-29 07:37:59 · 8 answers · asked by Love at first sight 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend has this theory that if two people have the same nose, not necessarily the same size but at least the same shape nose, they are meant to be together. Is this true? I hope it isn't because my crush has one of those eagle-beak italian noses and i have a dutch-looking nose. does this mean i should give up on my crush for good?

2006-10-29 07:37:56 · 8 answers · asked by chika4gw 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 07:36:57 · 20 answers · asked by tracy m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I are very passionate about our relationship. We love hanging out, dancing, holding hands, but we aren't sexual at all. What could be "our song"?

2006-10-29 07:36:57 · 6 answers · asked by tessiemae 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 07:36:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my exboyfriend came to visit me and asked me if i felt the same and if i could email some pictures of myself to him.

2006-10-29 07:35:59 · 31 answers · asked by amber_grace753 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like this girl at my school. She is one year younger than me so i don't think that would be a problem. She is the most gorgeous girl in the world with dark hair and the most gorgeous green eyes. I don't have any classes with her which is sad but i do see her around school a lot. But the problem is i don't think she even knows who i am. She is the best and i really wish she would notice me. What should i do to get her attention. I mean, once i think she smiled at me but it might have been someone behind me.... seriously i really need help! Im going crazyyyy!

2006-10-29 07:35:56 · 4 answers · asked by Sky 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 07:35:38 · 6 answers · asked by drummrkid90 2 in Singles & Dating

how do you know your in love what are the main signs

2006-10-29 07:35:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i can not lieve without him.

2006-10-29 07:35:28 · 20 answers · asked by badu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

On thursday i pissed off the girl i love. We had been dating 3 years on the 11th. I am kind of an @$$hole and have done some dumb things. but through her i had learned to controll my anger better. We had an argument and i walked away to avoid saying something dumb or snaping at her. We split up and she said "if we are ment to be together we will be in the end". We have done this before and everything worked out fine but it was never this bad. Im scared as hell that im going to lose her forever. I showed up at the homecoming dance last night to surprise her and jsut made her cry. I dont think i have ever cryed this much not even when my father died. I need her back but i dont know what to do. should i just give her space for now and let her find her own answer or should i keep telling her that i love her and miss her. If i keep tellin i love her im afraid she will get mad at me and never take me back. Has anyone been through this before and if you have how did you deal with it.

2006-10-29 07:34:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-29 07:33:00 · 10 answers · asked by Martyna M 1 in Friends

i have three children and my husband and i only get out about on an average of two times a year. his mother was the one usually who would watch them, but she has been ill for about 3 years now. so, due to not trusting anyone to watch our kids, we would opt not to do things without them, or pray really hard that his mother would say yes. but we would always get a disappointment with a last minute 'i can't'. anyway, we found a 15 year old girl who is willing to babysit for us on a regular basis when needed, my question is.....how do i pay her? meaning, by the hour, do i consider how many kids i have? i have no idea. she will take whatever we give her, but i don't want to jip her. the kids are 6, 5 and 3.

2006-10-29 07:32:16 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-29 07:31:48 · 9 answers · asked by SS 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 07:31:27 · 7 answers · asked by hrmom02 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i really like him but why does he not want any one to know?

2006-10-29 07:31:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

For example, my parents always want me to call them and tell them where I’m going, what I’m doing and who I’m with. Its reasonable and I really would like to comply but when I am out somewhere I never do. I think that they will get angry or that I will be back in so short of a time that I don’t need to waste efforts in informing them. This has lead to many problems and occasional loss of trust. Can you tell me why I cant do what is right, even though I want to and know what it is?

2006-10-29 07:30:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Wat way is a good punishment. Silent treatment is too difficult, and i think he enjoys it!?

2006-10-29 07:30:31 · 18 answers · asked by Lady 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what are you curious about and why???...just feeling curious here,lol ;0)

2006-10-29 07:29:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yeah hes a jerk

2006-10-29 07:28:21 · 11 answers · asked by CalebD 1 in Singles & Dating

What can I get my best mates son for christmas he is 9 month old at the moment. I haven't got a clue what to get him.
Any thing would help me as I dont know what to get him

2006-10-29 07:28:17 · 13 answers · asked by liz 2 in Friends

My friend always goes on trips and stuff. And she always gets what she wants. I'm soo jealous of her. What should I do?

2006-10-29 07:28:04 · 21 answers · asked by Sαoιρsε 2 in Friends

im a boy and im in 7th grade. i like this one girl, but she wants to get back together with some other guy. i really like her and im pretty popular.what should i do?

2006-10-29 07:27:19 · 6 answers · asked by Chowman 1 in Singles & Dating

who can i turn to for help

2006-10-29 07:27:18 · 33 answers · asked by dentonblinds 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I promised to take him for the colonoscopy but now he tells me he is making funeral arrangements. I really don't want to get that involved an I'm just trying to help him out. Now it is bothering me to the point that I just don't want anything to do with him although he is a nice man. I have my own problems, work, daughter, grandkids, boyfriends but I do feel sorry for him because I believe he is scared. Plus he has asked me to take care of his family if he dies. I cannot do that. What do I do or how do handle this?

2006-10-29 07:27:07 · 1 answers · asked by Maggie 5 in Friends

i personally feel kinda annoyed when boys give you the elevator look - up and down, head to toe look-over - unless he's really hot. but what do you think?

2006-10-29 07:26:56 · 30 answers · asked by skigrrl66 3 in Singles & Dating