1) Why do women say that men are bad at communicating in relationships, yet they are the ones who don't communicate. Example- Guys hear this alot from the ladies:"I shouldn't have to tell you. If you really loved me, you would already know" (sound familiar?)
2006-10-29 07:38:58 · 14 answers · asked by chuck3011 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wouldn't say either sex is bad at communicating. They are just not all that good at hearing and understanding what the opposite sex is trying to say.
2006-10-29 07:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by Jen M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good question.
Point one. Survey says: Women are better at communication in general. Women use about 25000 words in a day where men use only 7000.
So if thats true and it is then chances are good then that they communicate better in a relationship then men do.
Point two, Survey says: Men don't listen when women talk to them. This has something to do with the voice tones of women. It doesn't reggister that we even spoke to them until about half hour later. This has more to do with mens brains being different then womens. They don't do it on purpose ladies.
2006-10-29 16:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by sweetkooky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do we say it because it's a fact.Do you listen to us.If we ask you a question 9 out of 10 times you can't answer because your to busy with the remote control or just spacing out.Does all that (sound familiar)
2006-10-29 16:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, you're right but that is all being taken out of context.
When us women want to talk about feelings and emotions and sentiments you guys shy away adn leave us wondering if you love us and how much you love us. But I mean some things are so obvious that we really shouldn't have to tell you... like to get us flowers, candy, jewelry. If you really loved us you would knwo what to get us, etc.
2006-10-29 15:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not all women say this about men, only the women who do not understand how communicating works.
2006-10-29 15:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by dettie 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
not all women do it,I know I don't,I leave it up to the guy to express his feelings naturally ,I don't push,guess some women like to try to trap guys ,as for me no,that's not the way to do it,talking is the best way to get to know each other,and I have a saying,if it is there say it ,if not don't say it just to be saying it,can only cause a lot of heartache if said with no meaning to it.
2006-10-29 15:45:39 · answer #6 · answered by davec4real_02 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds all too familiar....but a man holds alot back because he thinks it is not the cool thing to say. or he holds as much back because of fear of saying the wrong thing.
2006-10-29 16:26:31 · answer #7 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women who tell you that are not women. They are still immature little girls. A woman does not try to pull that passive aggressive crud. And that's what that behavior is passive aggressiveness and borderline personality.
If you have a GF like that, RUN!
2006-10-29 15:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
see women are a bit selfish..we love to be pampered love to hear nice words..love to be loved...like to fell on top of the world...and if we dont..then we say all this things..but dont take it personal...you should try and read our mind..:) kidding not that much..but try to answer all that with love..as its difficult to be a women with all this hormones jumping up and down..its not in our hands sometimes....:)
2006-10-29 15:44:59 · answer #9 · answered by trendafilka 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men dont sence emotion like women do and women dont understand that. Its true if we were women thay shouldnt have to tell us. but we are men.
2006-10-29 15:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by odoyal4912 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋