On thursday i pissed off the girl i love. We had been dating 3 years on the 11th. I am kind of an @$$hole and have done some dumb things. but through her i had learned to controll my anger better. We had an argument and i walked away to avoid saying something dumb or snaping at her. We split up and she said "if we are ment to be together we will be in the end". We have done this before and everything worked out fine but it was never this bad. Im scared as hell that im going to lose her forever. I showed up at the homecoming dance last night to surprise her and jsut made her cry. I dont think i have ever cryed this much not even when my father died. I need her back but i dont know what to do. should i just give her space for now and let her find her own answer or should i keep telling her that i love her and miss her. If i keep tellin i love her im afraid she will get mad at me and never take me back. Has anyone been through this before and if you have how did you deal with it.
2006-10-29 07:34:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just how you just opened up your heart to "us". It sounds like you need to open your heart to her...Try to talk to her, even if you have to write down how you feel and call her on the phone. Or send it to her. Or if you have the courage talk to her face-to-face.
You will never know how things will work if you don't first try. Love is a wonderful thing don't let it pass you by.
If you feel that she is the love of your life, You need to look in the mirror and make some changes, love takes sacrifice and change from both parties. Love is also patient, so give this a try.
REMEMBER! Don't take for granted the love she has for you. Women do get tired of B>S.
Best regards
2006-10-29 07:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by sweetcincylove 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give her some space. Later on, she probably might forgive you and be back with you (or maybe you should probably apologize to her after you give her some space). If it doesn't work between the both of you after that then become her friend and if she's so angry at you that she doesn't even want to be your friend then, move on. There are other girls who might eventaully or already like you. Besides that, you have to learn to change your behavior a little bit. If you keep being an @$$hole, what makes you think a girl would want to get back with you.
2006-10-29 15:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by Cutencrazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what it feels like to be on the brink of losing the love of my life. What worked for me was putting my all out to save it. Swallow the pride you may have. Do things that she likes, so that will show her you are interested, and you are sorry. Words are not enough right now. Take her some place nice. Tell her how sorry you are, and spend the rest of your life making it up to her. And do it.
2006-10-29 15:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by Wanda B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yEAH HONEY READING THIS MADE ME CRY!!
yeah i went thru the very same thing not too long ago we are officially broken up and I say and think every day that it could of been better but he made me really suffer so screw that!!
She needs tym to think but go see her in face in a weeks tym life is hard but everything happens for a reason!!
I know yr scared so was I every day I thought was gonna be the last but I learnt from that and ive moved on your gf loves you very much shes just confused so are you you didnt finish the whole story so........
PEACE GOD BLESS!!
2006-10-29 15:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her ur seriously srry n u would do ANYTHING 2 have her back tell her ur willing 2 change 4 her try 2 loosen up some man plus it would probably help 2 tell her how much u cried about it tell her u cant stand it n u didnt mean 2 hurt her like that if all else fails refer her 2 me: ill vouch 4 u
2006-10-29 15:39:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a woman myself, I would say CONTROL your anger its scary for a woman to be around a man that is shouting at her etc. You will have to show her that you CAN do it. Then if your ment to be together and she forgives you then all will be good to go.
2006-10-29 15:38:52 · answer #6 · answered by Brenda S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you not write her a letter, you did a very good job on this one, It might include admitting what you did wrong the way you are going to look after this and how much she means to you
2006-10-29 15:42:10 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so sorrryy to hear that..but ur gf is right.. if u are meant to be together in the end u will be... so just do what u FEEL is right and dont over think it. if she loves u too then she will understand and the ball is in her court... ujust have to go along with life now
2006-10-29 15:38:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its sounds like she is not beinning serious with you........how about try and move on maybe there is a girl out there is alot better then she is and might make you feel better and does not always have to get mad at you at the most stupiest things
2006-10-29 15:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say that you should change a little, and tell her that you're trying to make things better in order to be with her,
2006-10-29 15:40:09 · answer #10 · answered by PaZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋