Family & Relationships - 29 October 2006

MY 9 year old son is extremely jealous of the time I spend with my 11mth old, and no matter how much time I spend with him or explain why she needs the extra attention, he gives me a hard time

2006-10-29 07:54:49 · 5 answers · asked by halexjack 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

? ? and they are little *****

2006-10-29 07:54:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 07:54:42 · 5 answers · asked by penny p 1 in Friends

2006-10-29 07:53:30 · 20 answers · asked by Adrian T 1 in Singles & Dating

my parents have been getting divorced for over a year now, and they just can't seem to work things out. it is very distressing when my mom (who walked out on my dad) comes around he house because it is still technically hers. i am in colleg now, and i worry for the mental health of my two younger siblins, ages 16 and 14. i do not want them to grow up in a confusing and rocky marital environment. i just want them to settle the divorce and be done with it. how do i convey that to them? and also how do i try to not worry about it when i am away at school?

2006-10-29 07:53:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-29 07:52:50 · 14 answers · asked by MonyB 2 in Singles & Dating

I went to school with this dude, We became real close! We always ate together and eveything! I decided to change schools and so did he, then he confessed this secret that he was crushing me! I felt the same way...but I don't wanna feel akward! I really like him but I don't know what to do!

2006-10-29 07:52:23 · 14 answers · asked by PrincessB 2 in Singles & Dating

i was in a room with my ex and his brother fixing something...then his brother says "are you gona talk to her yet?" then his brother dissapeard...my ex turns to me and says "you were right...i love you" and he grabbed my waist and pulled me towards him, right when i put my arms around his neck we dissapeard and the room went black and i woke up...this dream reoccurs all the time...help, does anyone know what this means?

2006-10-29 07:52:04 · 4 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Singles & Dating

How did you find out?

2006-10-29 07:51:27 · 18 answers · asked by Nathan 1 in Singles & Dating

y r u always falling for my spell. Who can't I mean I am hot ... but I do like the luv waves!

2006-10-29 07:51:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm just wandering if I'm pretty or not.

2006-10-29 07:51:09 · 14 answers · asked by Smiley 2 in Singles & Dating

surely if we are under grace then wer are not condemed?/

2006-10-29 07:51:07 · 24 answers · asked by Trying 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my mom is dying and I try to make her feel better and try to make her life as easier as possible. Im only 18 and when she dies I will miss her dearly. I just want her to know I love her and that I care about her dearly. I just dont know what is the best way to do that. She is really great and she tries all the time to do the things she used to and I try not to baby her but I dont know what to do. I just really want her to know that I care about her and that I love her!!

2006-10-29 07:51:05 · 3 answers · asked by babymiah18 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do men really love like women do, or is it just lust?

2006-10-29 07:50:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 3 yrs and have a 2 yr old. We fight constantly and last year I had an affair. He has proof of my affair through emails. He was on probation for felony DWI's and has now paid that off with our tax return so he can drink again. He is a non-compliant diabetic and has periods of highs and lows where he is confused and disoriented (not a situation for a 2 yr old to have to deal with). I don't leave her alone with him unless I absolutely have to and fear that if I do go through with custody that he will be granted time with her and he will have an episode when she is alone with him. He is drinking often now and I have suspisions that he is having an affair, but no proof. I want to move to Florida where my family is but am not sure that i can do that without the possibility of loosing my child. She is all I have and I want her to be safe, and safe is with me. What would happen if we just left and moved to Florida? Could they take her away from me? We live in NY.

2006-10-29 07:50:48 · 10 answers · asked by kristin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked a question here about a month ago, I met someone who was amazing and had not let my guard down in a long time so I asked if I should give him a chance. With lots of reassurance I decided to try agin. Everything was going great, we talked all the time, he even visioned all the things we would do together. Sat. night he said I will call you back and that was the last I heard. He disappeared, won't answer my calls or emails. Is this a bad dream?I can't breathe with out my heart feeling like its being crushed. He knew how scared I was to get hurt, he reassured me, called all the time, everything was wonderful... I trusted him. I feel so dumb. I should never have let my guard down. He left me hanging, no closure, no nothing. I feel lost. Why did he do that? I know I deserve better but its hard to tell my heart to get over it. I really fell in love with this guy. How do I get over this, how do I move on and not shut down and never trust again. Help me..

2006-10-29 07:49:56 · 13 answers · asked by greenswirl8 1 in Singles & Dating

My uncle says he is so brilliant cause he works on wall street and my teachers boast about there degrees, yet i have shown that even i know more about there subjects than they do. I believe they feel threatened or jealous. On to my solution, what do i do? I have asked others this question, but answers i have heard are all from people with low intelligance or apparently being people pleasing. How should i cope with this situation?

2006-10-29 07:48:42 · 14 answers · asked by Professor Sheed 6 in Friends

I got this message from a girl that I like and I currently, I am trying to build up our relationship. We send each other many e-mails and stuff..


well I got this e-mail from her:

what the hell...
ur computer is funny
oh peter told me that a long time ago like in the 80's ppl used to make viruses that would do cute stuff . like if he wanted to find a file or do something this window would pop up and say say "pleese" and he would have to type in the word "pleese" and the computer would do what it needs to do
or it would ask 4 a cookie and u would have to type in a name of a cookie... thats soooooo cute!!


how do I reply to this to sound funny and cute?
(please answer, don't tell me to get another girl, or that she's immature...just answer please!)

2006-10-29 07:48:31 · 4 answers · asked by rockability 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend and i both like the same guy. I liked him first until she found out he like someone. Now shes gonna aske him out HELP!!!!

2006-10-29 07:47:54 · 12 answers · asked by karazygal101 1 in Singles & Dating

In May, my boyfriend of 5 yrs broke up w/me. We were living in different cities & he found a journal whereI had written my thoughts about another man (my boss). I was also pretty selfish for some of the 5 yrs. He paid for me to pursue my career in another town; he was so affectionate; and because I had a few issues growing up, I was controlling sometimes.
In June, to apologize, I moved to where he lived, got my own apartment and started my life here. He wouldn't talk to me for most of July/August-- then asked me out on a date at the end of August. Since then- last two months- he has begun to call more, and we'll hang out at my place a couple nights a week; we even took a road trip to see a concert, but he refused to stay overnight. He invited me to a family thing a month ago with him BUT, there has been NO physcial contact, not even a hug if I shed a tear. He says he's not ready. It's been 5 months. Women love him and I'm afraid to lose him. What should I do? Just wait?

2006-10-29 07:47:10 · 3 answers · asked by need help 1 in Singles & Dating

that would like to participate in my research.....I am studying the pros and cons of being biracial and the overall experience. Also parenting skills that can improve raising abiracial child. If you are interested in participating---filling out my survey/questionaire....please leave your email address and I will send it to you within the week...Thank you.

2006-10-29 07:47:09 · 2 answers · asked by AUDREY H 4 in Family

i am now13

2006-10-29 07:45:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a breakdown 3 days after my father died. ex says I was just making excuses; I was in 3 hospitals. I was served divorce papers while in the psych unit. He knew I had a illness before we dated, married. That is why this is so very painful. I stood by him when he was ill.
It has been heartbreaking for me to get over. He did not stand beside me, just shut me out, now will not talk to me. I has been 10 months since the divorce was final. But, 20 months since this started.


The main issue now is that he has custody of my son. I have no visitation, due to not being able to afford a lawyer or be present in court. The judge gave him everything.

The bad side is I still love him.
Although, now I see he is liar, thief, user, mean, cruel idiot.
I have not been in counseling yet. I have hard days.
I know I need a lawyer too.

How do I get over him?
How do I regain my independence?
How do I get to see my son without dealing with ex?
Any suggestion

2006-10-29 07:44:50 · 7 answers · asked by strong1 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 24 years old and I have decided that I am going to wait and lose my virginity to the girl of my dreams my soul mate. But my question is this what do I do in the mean time I am so dam horny I am like this hormonal time bomb waiting to go of. I don't Jerk off any more because I think it is a disgusting habit and I don't watch porn anymore because I don't approve of it. So what can I do to keep my mind of sex please help.

I just feel sorry for when I do meet my soul mate because I am going to be all over her like a rash.

2006-10-29 07:44:11 · 25 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I am true roman catholic.Since when i was young i'm always dreaming to have a church wedding when i get married no matter how simple it is as long as i have the blessings. I served our local parish church & a cathechist. When the time came for my dream to be true, the world turns down on me. The wedding dream of mine has become the most embarrassing tragic in my life especially to my husband who's a foreign in my country and not a catholic as well.
We supposed to have a so called mix married in my church. A day before our wedding day, the priest just phone me to come to his office at the church. What a sad surprise for that call that he refuses the wedding for the reason that my husband have not completed the 10 days policy of the church of the registration of our wedding he's lucking 1 day, but he already knew and he told us that's fine and he signed all the documentary papers from the chancery. So he just told me that he's not thinking properly at that moment when he signed

2006-10-29 07:43:21 · 29 answers · asked by Simply_Me 3 in Weddings

she graduated in 02, i graduated in 03.
she was my 1st luv. its been bout 5yrs since i wz madly in luv. 4yrs since i saw her for the last time
nobody has caught my attention since her, ive felt lust 4 other girls but not luv.
now im not crazy for her but i still think of her everyday.
do ppl "fall out of love"? or am i going 2 be in love w/ her for the rest of my life?

2006-10-29 07:42:25 · 6 answers · asked by frekinRoyalty 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so the one at the skating rink is really cute and he asked me out first!! help me!! who should i go out with???

2006-10-29 07:41:53 · 10 answers · asked by (: 1 in Singles & Dating

is it healthy for a female to masturbate at LEAST once or twice a day? i can't seem to help it...one minute i'm not in the mood, and the next minute i find myself in my room or somewhere else by myself, masturbating. please, please don't get offended. i just want to know if something is wrong.

2006-10-29 07:41:34 · 14 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been going out with this guy for over a year. However, I don't know if I can get over things he did in the beginning of the relationship. Well here's some example...during the first week of dating I saw him putting his phone number into another girl's phone while she was sitting on his lap. He stood me up on our second date (it was a group date, but instead went to San Diego with a friend (who is a girl) to see UCSD) he called and said he was going to be late, but he ended taking way longer and was never able to make it. After making a promise to me to never watch porn, he watched a movie as a joke with five of his guy friends and one of his girl friends. Do I have a right to still be upset or should I get over it?

2006-10-29 07:41:25 · 23 answers · asked by trojansgirlie 1 in Singles & Dating

I sound like an awful girlfriend for asking this, but i think my boyfriends too nice. Everything is always about me, He never does anything mean and when he does something i feel bad about he apologizes and corrects his behavior, He’s a gentleman, has a good job, a great family ect.


I'm not that nice. I mean I'm alright, but I want my way, and I'm stubborn and emotional and allot of the time I'm wrong, I know it. The thing is I always am worrying about how he feels, I constantly have to consider if I'm going to hurt his feelings. I know it sounds selfish, but is he to nice for me? I feel claustrophobic not being able to be myself, constantly asking if stuff is okay you know.

2006-10-29 07:41:21 · 9 answers · asked by jinxintheworld 3 in Singles & Dating