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I went to school with this dude, We became real close! We always ate together and eveything! I decided to change schools and so did he, then he confessed this secret that he was crushing me! I felt the same way...but I don't wanna feel akward! I really like him but I don't know what to do!

2006-10-29 07:52:23 · 14 answers · asked by PrincessB 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

14 answers

Go for it girlfriend. You have had a best friend relationship with this guy so you know him pretty well already. That is one good thing about all of this. You know him in a way most of us women don't get the chance to know beforehand. If you truly care for this guy, go for it and be happy. You shouldn't feel awkward at all since you already know him. Just tell him you have more feelings than friendship towards him also and you would like to give it a shot. Good luck.

2006-10-29 07:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Ive been there. If you wanna be with him you just have to feel a little akward for a bit,but believe me it wont always be that way. You do have the chance of breaking up, and that will test your friendship. I recently dated by best guy friend for a couple months, but we broke up cause the timing isn't right. Either way it hurts, cause I saw with other girls before me(we have known each other a long time) and it hurt then too.

2006-10-29 16:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by Laurel 4 · 0 0

U will remain friends if u decide not 2 date him or not, but sometimes its not good 2 date someone u have been friends with its changes a whole lot of things because u are a couple not friends.Yall will start to look at things different especially toward the oppsite sex.

2006-10-29 15:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by klo jones 2 · 0 0

Ask him out for a date tell him you will go dutch treat and spend an evening together. When he sees how much he enjoys being with you on date like time. Next time he will ask you and then you can always use the excuse you have no money to dutch treat ,but you realley would like to go with him

2006-10-29 15:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0 0

What are you waiting for? Feel awkward, go to him and talk to him. A relationship built on friendship first is the kind that last for a long time and gives complete happiness.

2006-10-29 15:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by dettie 3 · 0 0

You have to be honest with him... tell him how you feel. It's what he wants to hear. If you wait too long he'll lose interest... If you really like him you have to go for it but if you don't feel ready or dont want to lose your friendship tell him that you dont want to risk the chance of losing the great friendsip that you have developed with him! Good luck

2006-10-29 15:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Olivia 69♥ 2 · 0 0

Talk more hang out more often alone with eachother not with other people and like go to the movies or do special things like give gifts so eachother

2006-10-29 15:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by Jay-ops 2 · 0 0

well my best freind asked me out the other day and now eveything ii great so u should go with it

2006-10-29 15:55:27 · answer #8 · answered by liss 2 · 0 0

I suggest you quickly ask him to the movies or something. Otherwise, his love for you might fade. Tell him you care about him just as much as he cares about you.

2006-10-29 15:55:45 · answer #9 · answered by James L 1 · 0 0

go out and get drunk together - you inner most feelings always come out then!! plus a bit of dutch courage!!

2006-10-29 15:56:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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