I am 24 years old and I have decided that I am going to wait and lose my virginity to the girl of my dreams my soul mate. But my question is this what do I do in the mean time I am so dam horny I am like this hormonal time bomb waiting to go of. I don't Jerk off any more because I think it is a disgusting habit and I don't watch porn anymore because I don't approve of it. So what can I do to keep my mind of sex please help.
I just feel sorry for when I do meet my soul mate because I am going to be all over her like a rash.
2006-10-29 07:44:11 · 25 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Umm...keep up the ideals.
2006-10-29 07:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by Black 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you an American ? I only ask because here in the UK (and most other places) the word 'virgin' only applys to girls. A male can never be a virgin, in the true sense of the word, only inexperienced. You say you're going to wait for the girl of your dreams. Believe me; when and if you finally meet her, she's going to expect you to know what you're doing. So get out there and get some experience now, to avoid being a disapointment to her. That doesn't mean you can 'use' other females, but some honest, respectful, safe, unconditional sex is good for a young mans development. It's your duty, as a man, to acquire at least some basic skills. Sorry if this answer is too 'European' for you !
2006-10-29 07:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Give it a try for a bit of sensuality with a girl that you at least like alot, and then work up from there. You'll find that a bit of this and a that can really spice-up/improve a relationship.
Who knows? You might find your soul mate in a regular girl that you date, the key is to explore eachother.
2006-10-29 07:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex isn't everything but you sound like a bit of a boring prude to be honest.
Keeping your virginity is commendable and I won't knock you for that.
We clearly have innate sexual urges which need to be released. Masturbation is natural, which the majority of people indulge in. It is not disgusting.
You don't approve of Porn, so basically you are stuffed. Those urges won't go away and your sperm will just leak out when you are asleep. That can be disgusting too.
You need to live a little and break out a box of tissues.
2006-10-29 07:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by GB 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Better go get your soul mate and have her help you out. Let the rash begin!!! Or take cold showers until you find her. If I waited until I was 27 you can make it. Did we ever have a goood time on our honeymoon !!
2006-10-29 07:51:08 · answer #5 · answered by Alien 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, there is nothing disgusting about masturbating and if you don't you are going to go crazy otherwise you are going to end up pre-ejaculating in your pants with the girl of your dreams before you even kiss her and she is going to laugh and you will be a laughing stock of her friends when she tells them. Nothing is wrong with being horny and masturbating. It is perfectly normal for all humans. Just don't over do it or you might hurt your self. Lastly don't pressure your self, relax and be patience.
2006-10-29 07:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you really can do for an all the time remedy but you could pick up a sport or activity like sky diving or rock climbing it's expensive and if your not having sex then you probably aren't dating so you could afford
2006-10-29 07:55:09 · answer #7 · answered by Since birth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you're doing anyone any favours here, least of all you and/or your prospective soulmate...you're 24...how long are you going to wait? and what happens if you dont find her?...id learn a really deep meditation technique if i was walking your path because not only does it help with mind over matter it alo teaches mental and physical discipline and a degree of control that might help you eventually..good luck with it...i think,lol ;0)
2006-10-29 08:14:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol whattaya mean u feel srry 4 her? shes gonna b a happy girl!!!!
anyway sex porn and jerkin r the only 3 options really srry man
2006-10-29 07:47:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man its going to be hard man but I feel it will be worth it. Take up sports and read a lot. Try going to church.
I think your future lady will be well pleased when that time comes though. Just remember you can be agressive while at the same time taking it slow.
2006-10-29 07:52:27 · answer #10 · answered by Almack 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well lets think....... yes why dont you just jump in a cold shower or think of the most discusting thing when you feel aroused, failing that you could always become a munk. ha! ha! ta for the two points lol
2006-10-29 07:50:38 · answer #11 · answered by Hunny Bun... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋