I asked a question here about a month ago, I met someone who was amazing and had not let my guard down in a long time so I asked if I should give him a chance. With lots of reassurance I decided to try agin. Everything was going great, we talked all the time, he even visioned all the things we would do together. Sat. night he said I will call you back and that was the last I heard. He disappeared, won't answer my calls or emails. Is this a bad dream?I can't breathe with out my heart feeling like its being crushed. He knew how scared I was to get hurt, he reassured me, called all the time, everything was wonderful... I trusted him. I feel so dumb. I should never have let my guard down. He left me hanging, no closure, no nothing. I feel lost. Why did he do that? I know I deserve better but its hard to tell my heart to get over it. I really fell in love with this guy. How do I get over this, how do I move on and not shut down and never trust again. Help me..
2006-10-29 07:49:56 · 13 answers · asked by greenswirl8 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've probably heard this over and over again but it's true. Time heals all wonds. Once you feel up to it start going out again and have fun. Know that there is someone 10x as better out there for you. Good Luck!!!
2006-10-29 07:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by Andyr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First are you sure he is ok and able to call you? If he is and doesnt want to talk anymore he is a jerk. We all go through periods in our life when we get hurt so bad we cant trust any more for example my former fiance came home from a tri preganant and it sure wasnt mine. but I took alot of time and took a good look at myself and decided that there wasn't anything wrong with me and eventually met the woman of my dreams and am now mairried just trust is hard . just take care of yourself and you will learn to love again
2006-10-29 07:55:18 · answer #2 · answered by odoyal4912 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay busy and focus on yourself not on the relationship people are in our lives for seasons and maybe to teach us one or more things, so take it as a good thing...
Stay busy an do not jump into a serious relationship take a class of some sort, go to Church, stay busy
Go out with friends male/female
2006-10-29 07:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by Fruitful1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel
this lady of mine
she is wonderful
but sometimes she leaves me hanging
and my heart is pounding right out of my chest
and when i try to push it back
it just recoils hard back to me
its a hateful feeling
but its life
im sorry about this
im sorry that you feel this way
but you must let go
for yourself
for you
its time to move on
and when you least expect it
they call you back
and all your feeling you thought you lost comes flooding back
but when it does
you can start to feel the burdan lift
and it will be easier for you to let go
all you need is closure
2006-10-29 07:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by MightyHyphy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop NEEDING ! He probably didnt like your insecurity. But move on, luckily it wasnt a serious relationship you probably fee embarrased most of all. But just move on, put your chin up and get another man, this time dont act so insecure, and play a little 'hard to get' not so keen..
2006-10-29 07:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She incredibly took you down via there, did not she? i'm sorry that surpassed off. you won't be able to assume somebody to love you till you like your self first. till you be attentive to your individual self-well worth, i would not attempt to get right into a sparkling courting. there are assorted solid women obtainable that could desire to delight in you. meanwhile, you're only human and there is only a lot you are able to take. My advice is to eliminate all tension factors on your existence. shield your self and make your self a precedence. you're a determine of an 8 12 months previous baby and caregiver on your grandmother. they desire you to be solid. be careful of who you enable on your existence. concentration on therapeutic, self-progression, and only embody your self with effective ppl. The human techniques and heart might nicely be an extremely fragile venture. shield your self with care :)
2016-10-16 12:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by johannah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hurt is just guilt in your heart. Just play really funky, loud music. You can trust again by telling the person...asking the person if they trust them again.
2006-10-29 07:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by Karbare 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a terrible thing to happen but maybe you were coming on too strong and you scared him away..next time dont spill your heart just have fun and see what happens.
2006-10-29 07:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not right for your needs . Move on. find a man who's good for you and have a family.
2006-10-29 07:52:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do i feel like crying...i am in exactly the same boat! I know this doesn't help i just wanted to say your not alone!
2006-10-29 07:58:38 · answer #10 · answered by untanuta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋