i can not lieve without him.
2006-10-29 07:35:28 · 20 answers · asked by badu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can either (1) stop seeing him, (2) continue on as his mistress, (3) get him to divorce his wife or (4) move in with him & his wife either in a separate bedroom or share a bed as 3some...I believe those pretty much cover all your options...
Ask him what he wants to do and offer the options...
2006-10-29 07:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes married couples with kids break up and it's sad. It's even worse when there is another person involved in the break up, but it still happens. If it is love, if you are meant to be together, you will be and he will leave his wife. If he doesn't leave his wife, he doesn't love you and he's a selfish man who just wants to have his foot in two doors at once without ever picking one. That's not fair to anyone. But, like I said, if it's really love, it will work out. But give him a time table. If he can't decide to be with you (and take significant steps towards that choice) within a month (and that's even a long time), then leave his selfish ***. You CAN live without him. You did it before you met him. If he doesn't want to pick you, you'll find someone who does. That someone who does will pick you because he actually loves you.
2006-10-29 08:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by graybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to leave him alone I am a married woman and if I knew someone was with my husband and know he is married with kids I would beat u down first and then beat him down. Are u even thinking about the kids u are a selfish home wrecker and when u get married the same thing is going to happen to u and then u can look back on ur dirty little past and cry ur butt off.
2006-10-29 08:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by marine_wife001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop thinking with your hearth for a minute and look as a grown up women on the problem...make yourself at his kids place...to stay without their father....or how would you feel if your hubby go out with another women while you take care of the kids at home...love is till some time..you should respect him..and I dont see how you can do it as he cheats...I would back off and see what he will do...just stay with cool head for a while..and see what happens for real..as in the eyes of love will be all pink around....be yourself..and decide what is your goal..for a perfect relationship...a man with two kids with no father and a broken hearth ex-wife...you can safe this to yourself..life is too short to start with all this on your back!
good luck
2006-10-29 07:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by trendafilka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a wife and children, then you need to walk away while you can. Men who cannot stay faithful to their spouses, aren't usually faithful to their mistresses either. He is telling you he loves you to keep you hanging on. Put yourself in the wife's position, would you want someone helping break up your marriage. If he is truly unhappy, he needs to LEAVE -- then and only then can you talk about loving one another.
2006-10-29 07:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by Syl B 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh puhleeeeeease!!! there is no one in the world that you cant live without. As long as he is married you should back off, way off,( as in out of the picture) If and when he gets divorced then you two can plan your future together. Remaining involved with him shows a lack of respect for him, his family, and yourself. there are plenty of single guys out there, However if this is the one you want ( one who would get involved with someone while he is married) Then you should wait till he is divorced. But I do want to pose one question. If he cheats on her with you , How long before he cheats on you with someone else? Just food for thought. Best of luck
2006-10-29 07:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he doesn't love you cuz he would've already left his wife. You and people like you are pathetic you cant find your own man so you have to go after others. Yeah you do need help...finding your own life instead of one that's already taken with another family!!
2006-10-29 10:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by littlemama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must keep cheating on his wife with you till she find out, divorce him & destroy the kids life.
ImMediatly after that you guys will hate each other, its not the first PSEUDO-love & won't be the last one.
He is stupid & you are a PARASITE living ON other people's possession ( he is a possesssion of his family: a wife & 2 kids).
GO & FIND ANOTHER SINGLE MAN & GIVE HIM A TRUE LOVE INSTEAD OF DESTRYING A FAMILY WITH 2 KIDS.
2006-10-29 09:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by drinda_house 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't live without him?!? My dear, how did you survive before him?
Get real. He's married. He's not going to leave his wife for you, and likewise would you ever really be able to fully trust him if he did. I mean if he can cheat on his first wife, what would stop him from cheating on you?
2006-10-29 08:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by Poppet 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get over it - your a home wrecker and hes a bastard. He doesnt love you more than he loves his wife If he hasent initiated a divorce so he can be with only you.
2006-10-29 08:11:42 · answer #10 · answered by !?!?! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋