yeah hes a jerk
2006-10-29 07:28:21 · 11 answers · asked by CalebD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am kind of in the same situation. When ever my best friend tells me about the guy she's dating I always tell her that she deserves better, because she does and I explain to her how she should be treated. I tell her that he's never going to change, and there are so many guys out there that would be alot better for her. She loves him though, and he was and is her first, so its hard, cause she doesn't believe that she can find antother.
Honestly, just be honest with her, but you have to be supportive of her. Whatever she decides, you have to stick by her if shes your friend, whether you like him or not. Be there for her when she needs you, there isn't too much we can do about the guys that they pick. Remember what we hear is one sided, so have an open mind. And as long as she is happy, thats all that really matters, as long as he's not abusive, be happy for her. Dont let a jerk of a guy get in the way of your friendship.
Hope I helped
2006-10-29 07:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit her down and tell her that you are her best friend, you would never let anything bad happen to her, and you don't want to see her get hurt, and then just come out and say that you think her bf is a jerk. Tell her that as your best friend, she should take this into consideration. If she finds out the hard way that he's a jerk, don't be all "i told u so" instead be there to comfort her.
2006-10-29 15:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont Tell Her Anything Just B There 4 Her When She Needs U. If She Asks 4 Advice Just Tell Her 2 Follow Her Heart Because People Lose Friends Ova Dumb Stuff Like That
2006-10-29 15:38:34 · answer #3 · answered by 06ThugMissez06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well mention to her that you think that hes a jerk, but dont b all like "Your BF is such a jerk!" just say like "Hey your BF isn't so nice to me dude." Or better yet, dont tell her, but watch out for her. You dont wanna start a conflict.
2006-10-29 15:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by Sk8chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if his been a jerk to you than you should talk to your friend about it, and if she's a real friend she'll tell him to back of.
Now if his been a jerk to her (your friend) than tell her to break up with him
2006-10-29 15:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by PaZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of that one. he may be a jerk in your eyes, but maybe not in her's. do you like her as a friend? if you do then keep the mouth shut, because you will lose her as a friend.
2006-10-29 16:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by get the facts right 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Belive me my best friend is the best jack *** to his gf so my point is that u cant say anything to the other person about her bf because she wont listen ive talked to both my best friend and his gf hope that helped
2006-10-29 15:40:27 · answer #7 · answered by Adam K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to tell you the truth you can do everything you can to try and tell her that he is a jerk but people dont want to hear that about the person they "LOVE" try finding ways to show her the way he acts so she can see for herself.
2006-10-29 15:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by BIG D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same here. my best friend's bf is an asshole and he always picks fights and gets jealous for no reason.
the best thing i've noticed is to just back off and give it time. they'll break up EVENTUALLY
talking with either one hasnt worked and im not goign to FORCE them to break up.. ijust gotta let it go
2006-10-29 15:32:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you Degrade every1 like this??God BLESS§§
get to know sum1 for the good they have in them!!
2006-10-29 15:29:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋