How do you and your ex handle child visitation if one of you live out-of-state?

Answer 1

Mine disappeared -- only to reappear when he wanted to seem like he is parenting (but the real reason: He LOST/got FIRED from ANOTHER job, and wanted to file for Child Support -- the same Child Support he was NOT paying all along!)

Answer 2

well how old is the child, is the child in school or not, these are important factors when asking this question. if in school, holidays and summer time is the best time to send him/her, to the out of state parent, if the child is younger then other arrangements need to be made, maybe driving and meeting half way somewhere, you as the parents need to work this out, that child needs both parents in his/her life

Answer 3

my ex husband did not have vistation rights at all, but in your case, you should go to your justice dept or through court that you will agree for him to see the kids only on holidays, And have them back into your custody in a week, alot of traveling, but if the kids are too young See if you can go with them on trips and you get a hotel, and have them go with father, then you get a vacation out of it, But thank God My ex lives in penn i live in florida, And he had no money to come visit anyways and a restraining order on top , Well good luck

Answer 4

I live in Maine and my ex lives in Florida. He has the children go to Florida in the summers. He sometime comes to Maine for a visit with them.They call and talk with each other a lot,and thanks goodness for computers,they chat with each other a lot too.

Answer 5

we keep in tpuch by phone often and agree on every other holiday

Answer 6

Thankfully, mine disappeared from the picture. So, if he didn't plant it, he should not sow it

Answer 7

weekends and vacations