After a dance i asked the girl that i danced with (i can't dance very well) if shed like to be my girlfriend and she said yes now I want to go hang out with her but i'm really shy and dont know what we'd talk about. (my last girlfriend was quiet so we didnt talk much and so thats why she broke up with me.)Help plz im really confused
2006-10-29 07:38:58 · 7 answers · asked by Kavic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be yourself and invite her cool places
2006-10-29 07:42:04 · answer #1 · answered by Ropi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I imagine this is very difficult and confusing for you. But truthfully, just be yourself. You don't have to be a certain way. From her end she is excited that she knows you have special feelings for her, but she's nervous too and not knowing what to do. She's probably waiting on your next move. You ought to initate the next step, and it can be simple. You go out of your way to talk with her. When you do that, you look in her eyes when you talk. Do you know how profound that is? To look in the eyes when you talk. I bet it won't be so important what you say, but how you present yourself to her. If you like being around her, then be around her. You learn about her from there. If you hold back and feel awkward, she will also feel this way. Like the last girlfriend, she'll get fustrated and eventually get bored and walk away. Just be with her like you'd be with one of your buddies. Talk about things happening in your life. Express interest in her life as well. You don't have to kiss if you don't want to. Take little steps at a time...whatever is comfortable to you, and if you are wondering if she is willing to kiss when or if you are ready...ask. It's not dumb to ask. Believe me, she'll really admire that in you. All in all, be yourself. It will get easier as time goes. This is exciting and scary. Don't let the fear keep you from wanting to express to this girl. You'll be happy with the results. :)
2006-10-29 15:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by sweeta : 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I give you mad props for asking a girl to be your girlfriend, that takes guts, and is more than I can say, if you were grinding or something of that nature (my personal preference as I like to get close to a girl) then she may really enjoy you and your company. My advice is to try and talk alot and see eachother often (try being real sensitive) ask about her problems and stuff
2006-10-29 15:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's easy. When you go out, talk about each other's interests, goals, dislikes, dreams, and so on. See what activities you like together and do them. If both of you like the same things, capitalise on that. If you like the same movies or foods, use them as activities to be together. Each day will bring its own surprise.
2006-10-29 15:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by Wanda B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worrie,cause if u allready ask her out that means ur not so shy after all.so be ur self and act like u did untill now.im sure she wont bite u
2006-10-29 15:45:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try a movie for a first date, you can whisper when you want or you can watch the movie. afterwards it can give you a convesation
"what did you think of the movie?"
"wasn't that coll when... happened?"
It will get things started, so you can talk more...
2006-10-29 15:42:06 · answer #6 · answered by shelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hung in there man.
2006-10-29 15:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by ?Z? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋